me and my bf got together brokeup got together and broke up now as soon as we broke up he askd me out i said no cos thats what happend last time and we only lasted 2days and he wnt take no for an answer.i dont have the same feelings as i did when we 1st got 2getha and i tryd to tell him if it didnt work last time even when you swore that you would try n keep us 2getha and then say u wernt tryin.he couldnt understand y i wouldnt take him back and since the 1st time we broke up he hasnt been himself what do i do? i dont really no how to would this sorry!! :'(
2006-06-20 19:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by ditsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby girl, follow your heart and move on.
2006-06-20 19:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by goodies100 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i will be a little biased cuz i was on the other end of this kind of relationship. I dont really know tho its probably rite what they are saying as in if you dont feel it the love has gone let it go, but bein somewhat in the shoes of your bf before i know its pretty painful especially when he's trying all his best to make the relationship work because no matter what destiny says he seems not to be able to love somebody else and he still believes that it might work out someday if you just keep trying and both of you are willing. One thing about relationships is that the outcome is usually already decided at the beggining, sometimes its not really a question of love but a question of willingness. Love just comes a long after you see that evrybody has their own ups and down. You can choose to move on and get another bf in the future but it will be the same, its not all because of him. Its partly because of you that your relationship works like a rubber band. Im sorry that waould be a bit hard to take but thats my opinion on the matter in the end its your perspective its your choice.
*edit* and probably the reason he seems not himself after your first breakup is that he been having these expectations for himself that he should patch it up and make the relationship great so that he wont have encounter anymore breakups from you. Sometimes this kind of things can get into a man's head especially if he has much other stuff to worry about like studies or financial perhaps, it doesnt really help that you are losing faith in the relationship and you gave up on it your reason being it hasnt work after trying alot of times in the past it doesnt mean it can never work, the only thing that can make it work is willingness in both of you to make it work. yes, sory this is a bit opposite to what you might be thinking or opt to do im just sharing what i felt and what i went thru.
love+peace
2006-06-21 02:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve that, no one does. If he cant get it through his thick head that your over him, he must be pretty silly.
Tell him your over it and moving on and just to be friends
if he really wants you and likes you he'll give you space and through that time maybe he'll learn and understand where your at
and hey if that doesnt work out theres more great guys in this world =]~~
2006-06-21 02:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by s2b0o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be consistent, goodbye is goodbye... dont be his doormat. Especially since you tried to get back together and it was unsucessful. There are other fish in the sea.
2006-06-21 02:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by AngiB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise to be nice to him and still be friends,but let him know its over and try to refrain from any intimacy as so not to lead him on; maybe try lining him up with another gal, and tell him you are going to date other guys.
2006-06-21 02:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by MOGLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you really need to learn to write English.
2006-06-21 02:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go by your true feelings and wait you might have to let go for now to see where it takes you good luck
2006-06-21 02:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant take no for an answer, obviously something went wrong, just move on
2006-06-21 02:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back. You can always dump him again.
2006-06-21 02:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him sry but it's over. i hope he understand
2006-06-21 02:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋