that "I'm not looking for a relationship, at the moment." - does that mean the person is genuinely not being able to have a relationship with you (i.e. s/he would love you, but cannot due to his/her present career or financial circumstances, etc.) - or is the person just using it as an excuse to tell you that s/he is not attracted to you at all?
2006-06-20 19:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to say, it could legitimately be either. I've personally said the same thing in both instances myself.
2006-06-20 19:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by freyas_kin28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends maybe they just ended a relation and the need to find themselves or they have way to much on there plate school education or work and they don't have the time for a relationship only you can tell if she is being sincere so GOOD LUCK
2006-06-21 02:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is an excuse. Maybe the person is afraid to get hurt, or has a fear of committment. Or maybe she's just not that into you , because when you meet that one person...hellfire and brimstone couldn't dissuade you from wanting to be in a relationship with them.
2006-06-21 02:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by vivmaiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy says it, its the truth. Girl, excuse. Either way its a lousy thing to say to get out of it.
2006-06-21 02:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were really into you they would pursue you. They are probably trying to tell you nicely that they aren't interested in you. You should probably move on.
2006-06-21 02:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your leaping, attraction has nothing to do with it. That is just physical. He/She is saying. I like you, like spending time with you, but I don't want to commit to you. I want to still play in the sandbox.
2006-06-21 02:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by maryneis01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse definitely
2006-06-21 02:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by europe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said that knowing how u feel 4 her, i think she's not into u...
but if she said that w/o knowing ur feelings, i guess she's just not ready..
continue pursuing her... but give her some space...
2006-06-21 02:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suunds like a plea
2006-06-21 02:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by waxen01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that they are interested in anyone but you.
2006-06-21 02:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by mudvaynecrazed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋