ok...i've got a fwend who is asian .... she lykes australian/non-asian guys but her parents dont approve of her being with a non-asian guy (some traditional thing)...wat should i do to help her cuz shez asked for me to help
2006-06-20 18:49:59 · 13 answers · asked by foxy_devil93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You do not say what her age is. If she is under 16, relax. Dont go crazy over any Guy yet. If she develops a more serious relationship, play it a little bit cool. Do not confront her family at this time because it will cause grief, and cause conflict. also it will bring on less trust from her parents. HER TIME, OR YOUR TIME WILL COME. At 16 to 17, concentrate on school, date a bit More. WHEN she meets the real thing it will happen easier if there is no conflicts fron her, or mom and dad. At 18 she or you will do what you want anway. So be patient young lady. Good luck.
2006-06-20 19:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to talk to her parents nicely and convince them that race is not a big problem as long as the couple can get along well with respects to each other and to the rests of the families of both.Anyway when religion is concern she must convince her parents that her boyfriend is willing to convert and the most important is she must get her parents blessings..without parents blessings everything won't turn out right!!~
2006-06-21 02:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by ~crazy~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
America really isn't free is it?
I would just see him and she can tell her parents they are just friends.
See if things work out in the relationship. If I were your friend, I would only tell my parents about this love relationship if they were going to get married. Their love relationship may not last long and if it doesn't she will not have ruined her relationship with her parents.
That's what I would do.
2006-06-21 02:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all does her family think of you as a good person? if so then the person who you should really focus on trying to win over is the father who practically runs the family(for most traditional azn families) so just try to befreind him and over time talk to him about it with your friend. That's all the adivce i can give and people like cybertug are so ignorant that they let anger control them over intellectuality.
BAM FOOL.
2006-06-21 01:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by aznxpranksta69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an age old custom and tradition and part religion thing too....... I would politly tell your freind that you do not get invovled with family things..... you are asking for BIG trouble...... have respect for parents and back off of this..... this is NOT something to get invovled with unless you are older and mature and have the ways and means of helping her...... God bless
2006-06-21 01:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white, and my wife is Chinese, and her family is very accepting. Tradition my *&^*, they are racist. Your friend should go with what she is attracted with in a mate, not the desire of her family. Beware: she may be disowned if her family is extreme. Is she up to that task?
2006-06-21 01:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just wait until she has enough money to move out on her own and finish college and all of that, then she can date whoever she wants.
2006-06-21 01:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by leela_karuna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an asian thing... you wouldn't understand.
2006-06-21 03:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should just wait till she's old enough or to try and talk to her parents about it.
2006-06-21 10:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing that you can do because its her parents's problem....she needs to talk to them about it and they need to tell her the reasons why and they need to negotiate about it....
2006-06-21 01:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by blue_bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋