Mature Ladies too answer only???

Question

OK here it goes... i understand women a lil not too brag but i was raised by women thru out my life... but why is it that women want so much out of a guy or is it the women im dating??? why do women complain bout the time a man spends with her and his freinds? and why is it a big deal bout public affection some want alot and others not as much but then complain when theres none at all? women want an honest and good man right? so why is it that when he is there they use the excuse they been hurt too many times and dont want that too happen again but then leave and fall for a guy that treats them like ****??i treat women with respect and im loyal and honest with them but it seems too me they take me for granted.i dont want too sound like a sissy.. but how much does a women want from a man?? and mature answers please..sorry for the length.. and if u want IM me at mijos19@yahoo

Answer 1

women are crazy. we think with our hearts more than our heads. you really cannot apply logic to the way women respond to men.
sounds like you should stop trying so hard and just be yourself.

and don't fool yourself. you don't understand women. we don't even understand women...

Answer 2

What is the meaning of life would be an easier question to answer. We want what we want. Since each of us women like different things, it's you job to pay a little bit of attention and figure out what she wants.. Example: You know your Buddies pretty good. You can figure out what they want or are going to do, etc... by there body language or whatever because you have known them for so long. The longer you know a woman you pick up on these things. The difference is that the majority of women are more emotional than men.
Now, shoe on the other foot. We have the same questions for you. Why doesn't he hold our hand in public when he snuggles with us on the couch? Why can't he spend a sat. with me when he was with his friends last night and wed. night? And the ' i don't want to get hurt' usually means she's getting to close to you and is scared. The jerk is predictable and safe (sounds strange, I know. Can't really explain that one.) You guys don't seem to bother much with an excuse.

All in all, we have as many questions about men as you do about women. It's just part of life. But, the more you are around individuals the better you KNOW THEM.

I have no idea if any of this makes sense. But just remember it's a two way street and we are all different (including men).

Your not a sissy for asking. It takes some pretty big ones to ask us that.

Answer 3

It's not how much we want, it's what we want....not every man is the ONE and we find this out by what we think they are lacking, some people just don't fit and instead of saying that they go into why, how, where, when. Most of the time they just weren't meant to be. That whole I've been hurt too many times thing is all about timing, if you see a woman crying over her ex-partner it's too soon let someone else listen to the whining and crying because that is what she wants and needs at that moment, not another boyfriend. After she gets over her ex she will realize that it's not over and she CAN trust again, whether she makes a mistake or not it's not really your place to judge who and why she is with someone else. Yes women do want a good man, but there are millions of technically "good" men....it's all about finding that one good man that fits completely with her! may I say True Love?

Answer 4

you are right we are not simple creatures at all.... and yes I am what you call mature, 48 yrs and married 30 of them....... but, all I can say is this..... God made us the way we are, so we can not be all bad and there must be a good reason for it all..... but, as for as men needing to know things, well, the man has to take the time to get to know the woman he is with..... watch, listen, stop and think..... don't just barge into a situation and assume you know what is going on...... we take things real personal like and to the heart...... we carefully look at things from all sides, sooner or later, we react real quick but then we analyze.. the best thing a man can do is to just sit very still and wait..... sounds kinds goofy and such but it true...... waiting until we let you know what to do is the best thing....... and yes most of us have been hurt by men...... it is part of life..... and I am sure most men have been hurt by a woman, and that to is part of life..... I don't think either means to hurt the other... but because we are so different in our thinking it happens...... finding the perfect mate is hard work these days...... tv, radio, papers, music, etc.... they all have a part in planting ideas in our heads of how things should be...... we , has ppl need to go back to the basics of LOVE and RESPECT !!!! God bless

Answer 5

Wow, great question. We women are complicated creatures. You just have to find the woman that likes what you like or has new likes that you can discover. Sometimes our hormones make us edgy and we don't mean to take it out on you or "take you for granted" just give us space and chocolate (sorry but it's true) and we'll come running back to you. But you have to study us, don't look at us when we cry at movies etc. Ask us how our day went, don't try fixing anything we tell you happened, like, the boss yelled at me, don't answer, you want me to go talk to him, um, no, just listen to us rant and rave and we'll get over it. Remember our birthday, our anniversary with you, and especially VALENTINE'S DAY...it may not be important to you, but to us, it's the day we show you and you show us the love we share. And it doesn't have to be with jewelry or material things, go out to dinner, get us a card maybe flowers. Just show us you remembered and that you care (even if you think it's frivolous) just show us that you care. Put us before anybody else in your life. Put us first. My husband has done all that I have put here, I adore him! Even when he gets a little cranky I understand him, because he took the time to learn my little quirks, and understands me when I'm cranky too. Gl with this.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

a woman call girl friend start to need ur fully love n concerntrade on them... a woman call girl friend... depends on ur relationship how far away.... personality and attitude problem makes man scared or hate them.... so, a man better get a gd job to survival in this world, get fully care of feeling's girl friend, show ur powerfully talent in various hobby, maintain ur relationship around people.... make sure u always suitable be a good man for them.... gd luck...

Answer 8

i believe woman want the good guys but they keep falling for all the bad ones cause that is what they are use to...woman that have been hurt expect to get hurt so they dont take their guard down..and the good guys they think always wants more and that are up to no good ...i think woman that have been hurt are afraid to trust .....does that make sense

Answer 9

women are looking for the kind of man who are just like there daddys ,

Answer 10

i think you need a very mature women is all.