Is my boyfriend cheating on me?? Help!!!!!!?

Question

his best friend had a gurls phone & left it at my house cause he got drunk with my sis boi. i looked through it & it had texes from my boi and it said stuff like "hey baby you miss me" ," you looked hot tonite" &" i wanna see you 2nite" . i asked him about it and he said it was his best friend did it. that he was texin that gurlz friend . i don't know wat to do. "do ya'll think he is lieing to me." should i brake up with him???? write back to me (K) bye!! xoxoxoxox

Answer 1

Ask the gurl in question..see wht she says..

You know ur boi better than we wld..is he tht type of guy, does he hang around guys tht wld cheat on their gurl? Has he been treating u differently recently(negative way)? If he has then he mght b.. In which case u might consider a brakeup

Answer 2

Honey, you have to consider the possibility that he might be telling you the truth. Especially if you have been going out for a longer while, you must not harass him with accusations, because, in case you are wrong, he will throw the fact that you didn't trust him in your face. It is better to sit back and to carefully observe his behavior. I f he has been colder to you lately, or if he has suddenly become more lovable, he is most probably guilty of something. Also, if he avoids looking at you as he speaks, or if he has any gestures that aim at covering his mouth, he could lie to you. Moreover, you should compare those messages with your boyfriend's style or just get a friend to call that girl's number. Anything you do, don't show that you are jealous or sad. You might be wrong and you could lose him over nothing. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, You have blown the element of surprise! Now you have to give him just enough space and time to hang himself! It's going to be hard but act like you believe him, don't mention it or anything else like that. Then if he is he will get comfortable and forget you are suspicious. Don't confide in any of his friends or there girls. That's like a big conspiracy! Just watch him and be clever. Don't make any rash decisions unless you have iron clad proof. He may not be doing that at all. sometimes our imagination runs away with itself. I'm just saying stick to the facts!!!!

Answer 4

no, dont listen to the other people. im not saying im right but the other people saying no, are just dudes who want u to brake up with him so they can get u. it probably was his friend or else he u would find texts like that every single day and u would see him on the phone all the time.

Answer 5

Text the girl back and act like you are your boyfriend then you can bust him for real. Unfortunately you have very little evidence to say he is cheating but if you lost trust then you probably need to kick him to the curve.

Answer 6

ask him again flat out, if he says not leave it at that but keep an eye on him.

Does his friend not have a phone, otherwise you can get his phone send a text her and ask her something about your boyfriend, if your bf has bleeched hair for example, just send her a text and ask if he should remove the bleech , or if he is tall and friend is short and fat ask something like, what do you think of my fat friend, he likes one of your friends. no need to reply

Answer 7

Well, try to make some sense first and we will go to step 2

Answer 8

Fact one of dating. -All boys cheat, all the time, Fact two, - Any hot girl can get any boy she likes.

Answer 9

Sounds a little fishy to me.... ask the girl he sent the text to.

Answer 10

he may be cheating but i would let him expain to me why this
was on his text. and if has not given you a reason to not trust
him then i would give him the benefit of the doubt.