i'm in a rather sticky situation. please tell me how to deal with it, thank you.
2006-06-20 18:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by potato 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend was in love with me for years and I knew it. I just told him straight out that I wasn't interested in anything but friendship. Now we both have significant others and are still best friends.
2006-06-20 18:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and oh what an awkward situation. I dealt with it by acting like I didn't know and making it clear in simple ways that I treasured the friendship. I don't know if that was best, but he never had to be embarassed by rejection from me because of that and maybe he saved face.
I actually experienced this twice, and handled it the same both times, and I guess it worked for me, and maybe them.
Good luck with it, I feel for you.
2006-06-21 01:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test him out first, like see how he'd react if you said you had a bf.
Tell him how you feel about it, but that shouldn't be a problem, you've been friends for a long time. He probably found you extraordinary, and thats why he fell for you. There's nothing wrong with that, is there?
2006-06-21 01:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel the same way or want to just stay friends
2006-06-21 01:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋