He says women don't do it for him but he likes my boobs and sometimes he jokes around about having sex with me Sometimes I feel like he is using me as a fall back in case the gay thing doesn't work out caus it's against our religion I mean we act like we're married and he doesntt want to start a romantic relationship with me caus all his other ones have ended badly.Should I be flattered he wants to keep me around or mad caus I'm not his first choice. Sometimes he'll say he can't marry me (cuz he's gay) but he gets offended if i say i dont wanna marry him and he keeps trying to get me to kiss him and he has a boyfriend . He does a lot of things to show me he loves me i just feel replaceable sometimes that's all like as soon as he gets a boyfriend he can stick with for more than two months it's bye to me should I wait for him to get over being gay he says hes unusure himself about being gay. Says he wants me in his life forever and he's asked me to marry him like 5 or 6 times in"joking"
2006-06-20 17:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welcome to the life of a f@g-hag. A few rules:
1)don't sleep with your best gay friend. Ghastly results!
2)don't keep thinking he'll ever get together with you. He's gay, get over it.
3)don't let him make sexual (or semi-sexual) advances if they make you uncomfortable or you don't know how to handle them. Next time he tries to kiss you or tells you he'll marry you in jest, tell him to knock it off.
4)Date another man, or a few other men. You need your own sexual (or just dating, depending on your beliefs) life, too!
Good luck!
2006-06-20 17:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1) ALL of us have at least SOME fantasies about being with a member of he same sex. Its just human. #2) While reading your question, I found myself concerned that your fiance wants to push you into this by 'getting you a woman' like its a party gift or something. Sounds like he's more interested in the sex between you and another woman than your feelings. #3) DON'T loose weight for someone else, ever. Do it for yourself instead. It is your life and health after all.
2016-03-26 23:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Yesennia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i wouldn't sleep with him under any circumstances. You'll end up being the one whos hurt, if he wants you in his life make it clear that you want to be friends and nothing else because it sounds like he just uses you as a backup plan. Find youself someone who will want to be with you, not someone who wants to be with you when it suits them. You probably provide him with attention that he doesn't get from others and thats part of the jealousy he gets when you say you wouldn't want to marry him. Good luck
2006-06-20 18:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*crickets*
you want to marry a gay man? is there a shortage of straight men in your city?
p.s. think of where his mouth was 'before' he kisses you
2006-06-20 18:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by fyne_blk_mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋