Before the baby I had the prefecet body and I knew it. Now my stomach is not as tight. I didn't get any streach marks. Before the baby I never needed to were a bra. I wore tank tops w/ the so called bulit in bar all the time because I live in Florida. Now I need to because my boobs have dropped. I had a c-section that left a big long scare right below my pubic line. I wore T-back bikinis and thongs beore my body changed. Now I am not brave enough to wear a one pieace. Are men turned off by a womans body after child birth? Do any of you men find woman with babies a turn on?
2006-06-20 17:39:18 · 13 answers · asked by LadyRedWild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tHERE ARE MANY DIFFERENT PHASES IN LIFE AND YOU CAN REMAIN BEATIFUL THROUGH THEM ALL, THE IMPORTANT THING, THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THAT YOU SEE YOURSELF AS BEATIFUL.
2006-06-20 18:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by the ant ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky not to have stretch marks. Those are the tell-tales signs of having a baby.
Since your body is still in shape, just not as firm as pre-baby, you shouldn't be embarassed about wearing a bathing suit. The thing about men is: they aren't as picky or attentive as us women. For example, a woman will notice if another woman's makeup is done poorly- a man will typically not notice unless it's blatant like Tammy Faye Baker.
You just had a baby. You should let your happiness show, don't hide behind a potato sack! Show off and let others admire how you're bouncing back so quickly and so well.
2006-06-20 17:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by lookdontlook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, having a baby shows more about you than any man can imagine. if men had children, we would have no populaton at all. Men can not handle the pain. If men are just after your body, then they are jerks. Don't let the world make you think that you have to be a size 0 to be perfect. go and where what you want. Be a beautiful person. Let people see the person that you are.
2006-06-20 17:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by bunnychugger2003@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the shallow ones. A woman having a baby shouldn't be a turn off for a guy(though it is for a lot of men.) It all depends on how he feels about children.
I wouldn't mind, but there are a lot of men that do simply because they are baffoons.
2006-06-20 17:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably be back in good shape in a few more months. It took my friend about a year, but she looks as good as before. The only thing that would turn me off is that i prefer dating women without children. However, I have met some that are still physically attractive. Just take care of yourself and you'll be "fine." (pun intended)
2006-06-20 17:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I can say is that when I see a woman really caring for a baby, it projects her femininity.
I mean REAL CARE.
This sounds sexist, but women handle children. Men do also. But nature has always seemed to intend women to do so.
So, for the guys who are looking for a wife, it IS attractive.
For a "player" maybe not. But who wants a looser anyhow?
2006-06-20 17:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NOT a turn-off! A woman with a baby is a definite turn-ON! Sex with a pregnant woman is awesome! And the first sex u have after a baby has been born and you've gone through the period of abstinence... WOW! Very very nice!!! Hey, but that's my opinion.... maybe you should call on me Lady Red!!! I'll calm your fears!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 18:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by fire911medic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for anyone else, but it is a turn on for me because I know the responsibility that it takes to keep a child. I don't have one, but my sister has four! You will be just fine. You need to forget about what others think of you and start being you. Your miracle will bring you infinite satisfaction.
2006-06-20 17:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women with a baby and single now days is often a turn on and don't worry about what you look like no one will notice if they really care if you need a chat email me on my nic
2006-06-20 17:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by lickermuff02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't be embarrased by your bod. while i dont think that women w/ kids r a turn on, they aren't a turn off either. and u still sound hot to me. If we ever meet up, we can compare scars, i got one from an appendectamy in about the same spot as u.
2006-06-20 17:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total turn off. You had a baby 3 months ago and you're looking for a man? That doesn't say much good about you does it?
2006-06-20 17:57:16 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋