i LIKE THIS GUY WHO IS 21 AND I AM ONLY 16 HE IS VERY SWEET AND NICE AND WE HAVE ALOT IN COMMEN I KNOW HE LIKES ME BACKL BUT IDK WHAT I SHOULD DO CUZ IF MY PERENTS FIND OUT THEY WILL KILL ME
2006-06-20 17:38:10 · 19 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have in the past went out with guys over 18 my perents have not called the cops or anything on them
2006-06-20 17:45:54 · update #1
I know he would nto go to jail be i know im not ganan go have sex witgh him rightaway i at less wanan be 18 when i have it and so he can't go to jail unless we have sex and get cought by the cops!!!!
2006-06-20 17:55:50 · update #2
remain friends and if he truly loves you then he will wait for you...you should wait until you are at least 18...that way you are adult enough to know what you are getting into and you are legal to be with him...
2006-06-20 17:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by .... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were one of your parents I would kill him! He is to old for you, find somebody no older than 18, tell him to stop being a pedifile! You only have alot in common because he that is what he wants you to think, at 21 you are at a different point in your life, your relationship would NEVER work, he most likely wants to have sex with you. You would be better to just move on and date someone in your school, or church, or whatever, stay in you age group.
2006-06-21 00:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by god_of_new 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be careful. Some older guys may want sex, which is a bad idea. Not all, I have liked older guys before who weren't like that. If you are sure his intentions are good, then talk to your parents and try to convicne them to let you date. But if your parents aren't okay with it then you have to wait until you are 18.
I noticed alot of people putting stuff about him going to jail. The laws are different in all states, so you may want to check this out. But i wanted to point out, that in most states it's only illegal if you have sex.
2006-06-21 00:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by TeenGirl88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a girl liking someone older. Go ahead and date him unless he's taking advantage of you.
Your parents probably didn't like the relationship bebause they usually picture a man fooling around with a "hot" girl. Prove to your parents he's much mature and knows what he's doing, and that you two really have a lot in common.
2006-06-21 00:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just keep it slow. Don't get really into it yet. Just be friends. Let your parents know you are friends and only friends.Ask him to wait for you until your 18. If he really loves you he will wait. Then when your 18 ask him out. That is what I would do.
2006-06-21 00:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by jazjadaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it age isnt always everything and i snuck around with my g/f for a whole year befor my parents found out about it and they were really pissed at first but all you got to do if you do get caught is show your parents how great the guy is they may be mad at first after they find out but if he really is good they will come around eventually it worked for me
2006-06-21 00:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself at risk, and then him and then you risk your relationship with your parents. Sounds like a lot of heavy things to go out with a guy .. If you do go with him you will probably be so nervous that you won't be able to enjoy the night ,.
2006-06-21 01:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by the ant ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illegal for you (a minor, under 18) to date someone over 18. Even if you love him, if your parents find out they can have him arrested.
Also, I firmly believe that there is a wonderful teenager out there for you. Enjoy your youth while you have it. Sooner or later, you will be stuck with the older men whether you want them or not :)
2006-06-21 00:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by biogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him if you REALLY like him, because if he is with you, he takes a big chance on going to jail.. and if you LIKE him, you don't want that to happen. Listen to your parents, Honey, they really DO know what is best.
2006-06-21 00:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 wait a couple years 4 ya
2006-06-21 00:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by joker_e_64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋