Im almost 19 and i havent had sex yet, & im a pretty attractive girl, funny..all that jazz. Anyway, i need to get laid before i enter my 20s and its an "issue".....i really dont care about "falling" inlove with the guy and all that......i needs me some seehhhx!
2006-06-20 17:31:49 · 36 answers · asked by woah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hhaha, i didnt think i'd get this many answers...and im not a hoe...im just so sexually frusturated i cant see straight
2006-06-20 17:38:38 · update #1
...why do i have to do it before my 20s....cuz i dont want my life to be a replica of the 40 yr old virgin
2006-06-20 17:42:42 · update #2
come over to my house, and i'd solve your problem real quick
2006-06-20 17:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a rush to do that right-here-right-now? Why before you turn 20? If you'll do it too soon and won't wait for that special someone to come into your life not only will you regret it down the road, you also won't be able to appreciate the other person that much either. Your feelings, emotions, and many other things won't feel the same after you did it with half the city, especially when that moment comes.
Think about what you're doing, first... That "ticket" is a one way... you can't and won't get it back ever again. Spend it on someone who's really worth it and won't take adventage of you in any way, shape or form, but will love and care for you with all his heart, mind, body and soul. Trust me, girl, it is worth the wait and looking for that special someone every waking moment. It is magical and so fantastic to be with the one who trully loves you and when you're ready for anything.
2006-06-20 17:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why exactly is it a must to have sex before your 20's? Im 20 soon to be 21 and still a virgin by choice. With all the std's and diseases its just too unsafe to have sex with just anybody. Plus getting pregnant is easier then some ppl seem to realize. Remember that even on the box of condoms, says their not 100%.
2006-06-20 17:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a phone book or just call a guy buddy and tell him you won't no-strings-attached sex. I'd say that you will be feeling the big love thing within the hour. It isn't hard for a woman to get laid. For a man, it could take a while.
2006-06-20 17:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sell yourself short. and don't be so anxious. once you lose your virginity you'll never get it back. you've made it this long so keep it up. just think, one day you'll have to honestly answer the man you're going to marry. He will have so much more respect for you if you didn't go out sleeping with people. Remember that once you go ahead and do what you're thinking you'll never be able to change it. i know from experience and i wish i could go back and change the past but it's too late.
2006-06-20 17:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by nicole g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm a virgin and am almost 19 and I'm ready to loose my V but am going to get a boyfriend first then wait till maybe 4 or 5 months then loose my V
2006-06-20 17:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ur crazy 4 jus wantin sum lol...but i say if u really want sex all u gotta do is go 2 a club and get sum drinks n u and hook up wit a guy that suits u best...and talk flirt kiss and all that....then take it frm there and da nex thing u kno ur wakin up 2 the guy u jus had sex with.
2006-06-20 17:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make that mistake! you will regret it if you stil have self respect after it's over. y don't you find a guy mary him then hav sex. sex is over rated. you have somthing more valuable than gold. don't go with the masses. don't be fooled! save it! a girls virginity makes her 1000 times more atractiv. pray about it then when you get a respons follow it. don't let hos lead u wrong
2006-06-20 17:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by don dada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the sex shop and get a dildo. They don't cost much and you won't get pregnant or have to go see your gyno cause you have a nasty infection. Plus a dildo can't give you aids, and they are just as good if not better cause you don't have to listen to your dildo talk about itself like it is some kind of superior being.
2006-06-20 17:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by mysticmamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to have sex so badly? Just go out to a bar or club and find somebody. But if you don't really want to have sex, you'll probably just regret it anyway. Use a condom!
2006-06-20 17:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should be an expression of love. it is not just primal need. it is nice to wake up beside a man that you truly love. i never liked the idea of waking up in the morning and seeing this stranger beside you in bed. you are so young. you still have 22 years ahead of you. and that is a long time.
2006-06-20 18:19:38 · answer #11 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋