let me explain.. wife dieing, have girlfriend,, looking for future answers?

Question

she hasnt passed away yet I have a girlfriend on the side, wife does babysit gf kids, wife does not know about it, and yes discussion of girlfriend going to funeral has been discussed, let people live there lives the best way they can, p.s how long death should i wait to remarry

Answer 1

All of you are weird and sick.

Answer 2

well life goes on but I will bet money that your relationship with the gf will not last a year after your wife DIES and is GONE FOREVER where you will NEVER see her again. I think you should at least have the balls to be honest but then again why fill her last moments of life with a broken heart is probably what you are thinking right well here is an idea fulfill your vow to her til death does you part then you can follow your d!ck where ever you want oops you already screwed that up to, and you have the nerve to let her babysit hmmmm at this point you have got to be thinking these people don't understand and poor me and boo hoo blah blah blah it sucks your wife is going to die before you because I am wondering what your opinion would be if the situation was reversed.But then again I do not know you or your wife maybe she deserves to be treated like this maybe I missed the day of class where human ethics allow in certain cases for us to crap on the people we are suppose to love, but that would only be in a perfect world and seeing that this is far from a perfect world I guess you should just do what ever you want, oh wait you are already doing that so why waste your time asking what you should do???

Answer 3

tough situation to be sure... Has the marriage been good, or bad? The reason I ask this is because I know a guy in JUST this situation. Their marriage wasn't at all idyllic - she manipulated him mercilessly. Then she died from diabetes (which she even admitted she did a lousy job of maintaining). He had a GF for about the last year, or so, of the marriage but kept her really well hidden from the extended family. GF didn't go to funeral out of respect for the family. The family knows the marriage wasn't great and everyone seems to understand his situation - without openly blessing the GF in some cases. Remember, there's a lot more to those wedding vows other than "'til death do you part" - like "love, honor, and cherish" and that vow was made by BOTH of you. Finally, I would make absolutely sure you're past your grieving period before contemplating remarriage. That pain can creep up on you when you least expect it. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Your wife babysits the GF kids and doesn't know about the GF, but you discussed with your wife about your GF going to her funeral.
Seriously, You've got to be making your wife feel terrible. You should just spend time with her. That's what your marriage vows were about. If she's really that sick that she's gonna die, should you be strapping her down with your GF's kids when she's probably very tired? Give the poor woman a break. Your being selfish, your only thinking of yourself right now.

Answer 5

Tell your wife that you are having an affair with the woman's children she is babysitting for. She'll probably die sooner, of dispair and you can go on and marry the other woman even sooner. Then you can put her kids through the hell of having a new step parent. You'll be happier this way, screw everybody else!
Are you serious?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who's to say you will not do the same to the other woman once you are married to her?

Answer 6

1st off ur wife is still alive u should not have a GIRLFRIEND! U are committing adultery through GODS eyes. and for u to let ur wife babysit the others woman's kids is straight out disrespectful. and for u to even ask about getting remarried already! damn u have sum damn nerve. p.s what makes u think on ur death bed that ur new "girl" wont do the same to u?

Answer 7

I'd wait a year, so it doesn't look like you m******d your wife.

Why don't you first talk to your dieing wife and tell her the truth, instead of beating around the bush. See how she reacts to the whole scenario? Then you may think twice about what your saying or even applying. You need help!

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Answer 8

"til death do us part" means you are supposed to love and be faithful to your wife forever, until one of you dies.
It doesn't mean that since she is about to die you should start dating and looking for a future wife.
Cheating is bad, but what kind of person cheats when his wife is sick and dying.
How can you have you sick wife baby-sit the kids of your mistress so you can cheat? And what kind of women has a relationship with a man who is married and whose wife is dying? You are both horrible people, so i guess you were made for each other.

Answer 9

You have got to be the most horrible, disrespectful waste of skin I have EVER heard of!! HOW DARE YOU? IF you were MAN enough, you would be caring for your wife when she needs you most instead of being the selfish *** you seem to be! As for your girlfriend.. you two deserve each other!! She is sleeping around with you KNOWING your wife's situation? What a WHORE! I hope you BOTH get what you deserve! And I hope it hurts and I hope it burns.. forever. Creep.

Answer 10

you are one cruel person, how can you stand by and wait for your wife to die? just so that you can be with someone else? your wife is sick, how can you not be by her side? and you let your wife babysit your g/f kids? omg, sounds like you made her arrangements for her. you are one sick person, you are cruel and has no feelings for no one but your self. ..you neen help!!! fast, but i dont think you can be cured. thats the most sadest situaton iv ever heard of..i hope you get the same treatment or worse some day...and your g/f to....

Answer 11

First and foremost, you should be shot in your knee caps and your wife should be the one holding the barrel. For 2, Speak english. For 3 - HOPEFULLY this is a joke, and not a real dilemma. If so... and it's real.. you should pull your lip over your head and swallow.