I was going to ask him out the other day but I chickened out and started rambling about stupid things that don't make sense. I'd like to know once and for all where we stand (he used to seem like he liked me a lot, but now I'm really confused about how he feels towards me). How do I let him know that I like him and want to be with him but that I'm not going to force him into a serious relationship or anything??? Even if he says no I just want him to treat me like he always does....no need for special treatment just cause he feels bad for not being interested.There's also only so much to do in our town....movies and dinner seem so cliche....I just really need help getting the courage to ask because I think it would help give me closure. I've let more guys go because I'm too shy than I can count and this ist he first time where I truly feel like I may have a fighting chance....help...encouragement, thanks *ps plz no answers saying never to ask a guy out*
2006-06-20 17:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by miss m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep on trying! Call him, or ask him face to face if that's easier for you. Guys have just as much of a problem with shyness as girls, you know, and sometimes worse. I bet he'd like to be with you, too. Right now he may be trying to get the courage to ask YOU out. You never know until you go for it. Besides, guys love to have girls ask them out. It makes them feel special.
Dinner and a movie is just fine. It isn't what you do on a date that matters, it's who you're doing it with.
2006-06-20 17:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me your normal, just try to get to be friends with him first, then let him know that you care about him by buying him something you know he would like or need. If you need help asking him out just say, "I had a dream about us dating(or being girlfriend and boyfriend)?" If he says anything good then go along with it. And if he says how weird, you say, "I know isn't it funny?" If everything fails things might be a little akward between you two for a while but you'll forget about it and so will he, atleast you won't go around wondering.
2006-06-20 17:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so shy too!! I liked my classmate so mucho and I was so shy and couldn t even speak to him. Then once he sat next to me and I left!!!! But everysingle day, i began doing liiiiitle things. Once I sat next to him. Then I saw him at a night club.. and said.. you are my classmate, if I knew you were going to come I would have come with you, we should exchange numbers on monday.. Then I sat next to him... passed him a paper and asked him to put his number there, and he asked mine as well. Then I just sent 1 message saying... the other day I wanted to invite you to watch the World Cup with us!!! and then he said... What are you doing for today?... well we dated last weekend for 3 days... well for me this is amazing. But believe me.. i began with little stuff... liiiittle
2006-06-20 17:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by grapes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, Guys won't judge you, if they don't like you they'll just be like "..." And later they'll text/call/talk to you sbout other stuff.
2006-06-20 17:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mike B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do call him or a card
2006-06-20 17:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him or write him a letter.
2006-06-20 17:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him girl!!!
2006-06-20 17:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brunette Chick 20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋