im cute and guys seem to like me cuz of that. i dont think they would like me if i was ugly.....nowhow do cute girls know when a guy likes them(does he likes me cuz im cure or 4 whom im)?
2006-06-20 17:23:01 · 18 answers · asked by grafyredpizza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like to me ,,,,you are having sex to soon before you know the true color.s of the man. Also if you are treated bad, you get out of the relationship, you don't stay in it and keep going to bed with him. Also not all men are that way. Be more picky on who you date or bring in your bed. Peace.
2006-06-20 17:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello grafy...Im a male and I have to tell that the reason why this goes on is because girls allow the guys to do this. You women have the power to make a decision and that decision is should I stay with him or not. When you have to make such a decision you have stop for a minute and ask yourself.."Am I happy?" "Does he really care about me?" "Does he really and truly love me?" But the most important question out of the 3 is "Am I happy?" If you are not happy being with this guy, you will never be happy. Your life will be miserable and you wont ever get what you feel you deserve......HAPPINESS!!! So be careful and be cautious in your decision making. Good Luck!
2006-06-20 17:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by D.J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are associating with shallow liars. Stop hanging out with them. If you can't find someone who will treat you with respect and love, then stay away from them until you are older and can date more mature guys. I must point out, however, this is a problem that you can experience at any age. You have to be careful.
When you meet someone new tell them up front about the jerks you have dated and tell them that you are NOT going to have sex with them or anyone until you are out of school and married. If they are out the door right away (or shortly thereafter) you will know why they were there in the first place.
2006-06-20 17:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by bigrob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because you're having sex with those adult males too early for them to advance actual emotions for you. when they have gotten what they needed, they experience they can deal with you even if they pick to because they in no way loved or respected you firstly. you won't be able to have sex with a guy to make him love you. you receives the different effect. they say: adult males provide like to get sex, and females provide sex to get love. you need to attend until eventually you're prepared for sex. If a guy pressures you or leaves you - then he's not the single and would in simple terms damage you besides. Wait until eventually you've a genuine dedicated relationship and also you comprehend he's sticking round for the right causes
2016-11-15 01:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by dethlefs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that trust me you have probably just had a few bad experiences you should try going out with different kinds of guys. Because some guys are just assholes and some arent.
2006-06-20 17:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to me all the time,my looks attract the dogs! Also,I have learned men will say anything you want to hear just to go to bed with you! Its amazing the lengths they will go,especially if you are cute,its like a conquer thing for them,ego boost,you are just another notch for them,think they call it sport *******! Its pathetic but true,cant take the hunting nature out of them...
2006-06-20 17:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by kgrl360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a difference between guys being attracted to you because you are cute, and them liking you because of your personality.
You just have to not let things go very far until you are sure they like you for you and not your looks.
2006-06-20 17:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have had many women say the same to me just to run off with the first bad boy they could get. Not just guys.
2006-06-20 17:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way to find out if they really like you is not to give into what they want. i mean i cant say that ive always stuck to that.. but guys arent all one track sex machines.... some of them really are nice guys. i know it may seem like they are right now... it did to me too.
and yes the nice guys do like even ugly girls... not all girls are beauty queens you know... and in the end most of them find someone who wants to be with them for the long haul...
find a guy who actually wants to know what you like. and who isnt trying to pressure you into sleeping with him.. and then youll know he actually likes you for who you are.
2006-06-20 17:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by jeni b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi first of all please keep in mind that i am a gay man guys that come up to you and tell you that you are cute want you for your body they don't care what's on the inside they want sex but it's the guys who aren't coming up to you that really want to know the real you those guys don't come up to you because they are shy and are arfaid of rejection but those are the guys who will like you inside and outside i hope i helped
brian/bridget
2006-06-20 17:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by brian/bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋