2006-06-20 16:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by ctlnmcgahey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to understand her and why she is the way she is, and trust me sooner or later you will not see her as that - as you grow older and see things from another perspective. Also, don't give her ammunition to be any of those things with you, be the best person you can be and give her respect as your mom. You will be glad you did later, regardless of what you are going through now. No matter what she does, it will not be on your head for causing any problems and she will have to deal with it herself. Remember, time will go by and you will then have a choice to either put up with her or step away and create your own life with minimal time spent in her company. Learn from how she acts, try to watch yourself that you do not begin to be like her - it happens at times and you will suddenly realize you acted just like your mom in this or that situation. Good luck!
2006-06-20 16:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you're 20, you might want to get a job and move out. It sounds like you can't talk sense into your mom anymore than she can beat any hatred out of your heart. Get a job, get an apartment--with roommates, if you have to--and get away from her. By the way, she should know that abusing you the way she is will force hatred into your heart.
2016-05-20 07:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHA==== well 1st of all, is it your mother? My husbands ex wife is just like that and the only reason we even deal with her to begin with is for his children, But in your case, if shes your mother and you have that much resentment towards her, you need to talk to her, tell her what your problem with her is and if she dont change, cut your ties..... if you truely love your mother and just feel bad for her because she has problems, then deal with them and bite your tongue. Thats how my husband and I deal with the mother of his kids....
2006-06-20 16:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by heavensent41770 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change her, the only thing you have control of is your reaction to her. Just try to take a step back and look at the big picture and not let her get to you. Try not to get pulled into all the drama.
2006-06-20 16:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time i have the same thing.. so don't think you are the only one listen to music scream in a pillow... i just sleep or i use my music good luck:)
2006-06-20 16:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by beccagoboom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her know none of you business. Keep the visits and the conversation to a minimum. Like they say what you don't know won't hurt you or anyone else.
2006-06-20 16:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by keppley@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind that you will not be like her. She can help you to be a better person just by refusing to follow her example.
2006-06-20 16:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had the answer to this question I would not need Prozac right now!!!!
2006-06-20 16:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make absolutely sure you learn from her mistakes and become someone better. :)
2006-06-20 16:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what you think you should do.
2006-06-20 17:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by jes c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋