My Parents i swear they use me as a telegraph there's three siblings and im the middle one my sis which who is older she is either at school or at work and my lil Bro is in his room all the time and i end up being in the middle of their Bickering i cant take it anymore im going to go crazy its mostly my mother who starts it anyway i try to explain that im not a messenger im there son so what should i do?
2006-06-20 16:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by dan248man 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell them that you refuse to get in the middle of it and walk away
2006-06-20 16:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by nikki_mh02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is not be there....
Your other siblings aren't there why should you be? Simply put, you shouldn't. Since you know these things are gonna happen just stay clear of them! Even if you do try to help your parents, they are just gonna bog you down. You don't deserve it... At least for your sake, you are aware of the problem. Now you are to decide the outcome...
Do you just tell yourself it's not that bad, only to find yourself back where started from.....
Do decide to serve a purpose and help your Parents (beware of that).....
Or do you say, "Ah, never mind... I know how that works and it's not for me.... Let me find something to do that keeps me from chaos!"
2006-06-21 00:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by SuperPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get mom at a quiet time and tell her how you truly feel about their bickering in front of you.........If you are honest and sincere, she should feel bad about doing it and stop......I feel bad for you children that have to go through that....My parents argued every day too and it was a nightmare growing up......I vowed not to argue in front of my kids and don't...Hang in there honey and remove yourself from the situation when they are bickering.......
2006-06-20 23:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them to sit down with you. Tell them how you feel and that you are apart of this family. Let them know it makes you upset to be caught in the middle. By birth you have no choice. (sorry) Maybe they will see your point and try to change their ways.
2006-06-20 23:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by ebay_convert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you dont want to be the messenger...make her listen...sit her down and have a talk...if not...start yelling and screaming saying that you arent the messenger...i think she may get the point then...(has happened 2 me before...sucks...i agree with you...me=daughter[in your case son] and am not the messenger)
2006-06-20 23:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not be around to be the middle man or tell them you're no longer going to do it! they're probably able to say more hurtful words since they're not doing it themselves and in person since you're doing the delivery. put and end to it.
2006-06-20 23:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say I love u but no. its as easy as that. when they ask u why say I love u dearly but it drives me insane when u want me 2 be the messenger so I am not doing it anymore.
2006-06-20 23:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time they start fighting throw them pillowes and tell them just to go at it and leave the house,
2006-06-20 23:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that, with all of you in one room... tell them it's hurting you and your siblings....
2006-06-20 23:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by bk_cutie_luvs_u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋