IIs it wrong to pleasure yourself after you have had sex with your partner?.....(like 20 minute or when he falls asleep)
2006-06-20 16:25:21 · 34 answers · asked by christineh689 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no baby nobody can do it better than you
2006-06-20 16:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by gapeach 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as he is okay with it I see nothing wrong with it, he may think he isnt satisfying you enough though, but most of the time thats not true. Sometimes my husband doesnt do for me so I go in another room and finish without him. He doesnt mind because it saves him the extra work... but if he does have a problem with it then its better to do it when he isnt there. or ask him to help you out and if he doesnt feel like helping then ask him if its okay for you to do it yourself. you could even ask him to watch if you think it will turn him on before sex. If you arent being fullfilled all the time my suggestion would be for longer foreplay with your partner before initial sex, it will get you ready for him plus take less time for you to orgasm... that way he wont be getting upset (if he is getting upset) about you doing it later after hes asleep :)
2006-06-20 16:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our desires, and if you are comfortable with your relationship and this is something that you are willing to do fulfill your sexual desires and keep your relationship alive than you should consider keep on doing what you are doing.
Eventually though you are going have to decide is this a long term answer for your situation, or do something between you and your partner need to change.
To answer your question though, it is not wrong you are protecting your partner's ego. You have an idea of how they would react if they knew so you know if telling them is best or not (a lot of guys don't want to know).
2006-06-20 16:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by dscot399 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be wrong about it? Who are you hurting doing this? If he can't bring you to climax and falls asleep it might be something you need to talk about. If you want to climax again after he falls asleep, go for it!
2006-06-20 16:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by chrissheather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt because women dont "get off" USUALLY by sex. BUT., maybe next time you can pleasure yourself while having sex or during forplay so u dont feel so guilty.
2006-06-20 16:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he thinks he is leaving you sexually satisfied. Then he may be offended if he found out.
Does he know you are unsatisfied? Perhaps you should try to incorporate what is pleasurable to you into sex. You could even have him help you!
2006-06-20 16:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by splashum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he he didn't or can't you could do it sooner then that and make him watch and ensure a round 2, 3, or how ever many you want.
My ex did this almost every night
2006-06-20 16:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Chad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means that you need a littles something extra.but if u r doing it because u r not reaching an "o" with the bf then maybe u need 2 talk 2 him so that he can help.
2006-06-20 16:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your partner isn't putting enough effort into satisfying you!But no, nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-20 16:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by mobilmen59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! i would work on those communication skills though.Tell your man what it takes for you to make the face. Encourage him to do more foreplay.When he does something that you like,tell him. We don't know it all. Peace.
2006-06-20 16:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not...maybe you should do it before and you will be satisfied when you ans your partner are done...just a thought.
2006-06-20 16:29:04 · answer #11 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋