2006-06-20 15:58:55 · 33 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No... Sweetie think about it - You've been seeing him for a year and you JUST found out he's married?
2006-06-20 16:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by crisagi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that cheat on their wives almost never leave their wives. And even if he did, what makes you think that he won't cheat on you? He cheated on his wife. This is a man that does not care about anyone but himself.
Baby girl, you've been with this man for over a year. Don't make it a year and 1/2. Please have enough self respect to leave him alone. Now that you know that he's married you have to get away from him. Don't expect him to leave his wife because it won't happen. If you stay with him you will always be the other woman, you will always be hurt by this man and made to feel like a whore with this man. Don't let him. You are worth more than that. You're intellegent and have amazing qualities i'm sure.....You're worth more than what this man is now putting you through. Leave girl!
2006-06-20 16:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh hello...if he is married; what the heck are you doing seeing him...as a woman on the receiving end of an affair...do everyone a favor...think of this man...his family (does he have kids with his wife, is he close to his mother and family...the wife) do you want to destroy that, to hurt all those other people? Do you have such low self esteem for yourself that you want to play with a married man? He is no kind of man if he would do that to his wife; he might do it to you too...Please; seek someone else, a single man! After a year of doing this; it is only probably for divorce if the wife finds out and she wants to end it...if he were really interested in you with in a year it would have happened i think...good luck to you.
2006-06-20 16:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by hotmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have afriend who is going through this situation? It's been going on like 2 years now and he still haven't left his wife. He doesn't live with his wife but he has kids by his wife and some nights he dont come home , ( ya know chillin with boys , so he say) And every time the situation gets thick he runs back to his wife. If he had intentions on leaving his wife he wouldn't have hid it from you in the first place! Move on sweetheart!
2006-06-20 16:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mstoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
madam,
I've been seeing this guy for over a year what do you mean actually?.
since you are seeing him for an year how do you expect that he will divorce the first wife.
it is ridicules to go after him,.
there are plenty of young and energetic handsome fresh many many boys with decent job recent personality available in this world. the world is very wide.
you can pick up any to suit your taste not a dirty linen used,
good luck
2006-06-20 16:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that your man will not divorce his wife until you lose your mind, your self respect and your sweet personality.
While you wait, you will suffer. You will get jealous at the wife and get competitive with a foe who knows nothing about you, you will moan about your loss of youth, your all other missed opportunities. There's no telling how much you'll have to give up. It's up to you.
2006-06-20 16:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not and I say this because he has got away with it for a year, I dated while i was married to for almost a year( I know , bad me), and the guy I was dating wanted me to divorce my husband, and marry him, when the fun of leading a double life was over I stuck with my husband, I really loved him, not the boyfriend. good luck.
2006-06-20 16:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by blessedmaconmiracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll never get a divorce. He's been with you for over a year and yet he's still married means he has the best of both worlds: family stability and unfettered sex. Get rid of him
2006-06-20 16:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10... no! Watch the movie MatchPoint. It might give you a better perspective. It is too hard to leave the comfortable life of the marriage to go into the unknown of the affair. Kids make it even harder.
2006-06-20 16:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Angels girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's hope he doesn't. If you ever married this man you can rest assured that your new husband is a man who has proven to you that he will be unfaithful to his wife.
God help you then, if someone a little more tempting were to come along!
(sort of like YOU, right now)
2006-06-20 16:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋