Ex. When me and him were layin on the couch. He was holdin my hand and puttin his arm around me. He was layin on my lap(Head first) But the next day he was around his freinds and wasnt even talking or sayin anything to me.
2006-06-20 15:54:21 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like hes embarassed about his feelings towards you. He probably wants to keep what you two have in private, which isn't such a bad thing..believe me. It's alot easier to have a real relationship without everyone's prying eyes all in your buisiness.
2006-06-20 16:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by itslikedakine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing that because he does'nt want anyone to know that he likes you. Either that or he's only hanging out with you in hopes of "getting something from you" Either way that guy is a punk and you don't need to waste your time with that guy. The same thing happened to me growing up. I've had a few boyfriends that were with me untill someone found out about it then they broke up with me. It's stupid. I then made the decision that if someone wanted to be with me they'd be with me no matter what anybody else thought. That kid has problems. People with problems like that bring bad karma and don't respect you. You don't need that. You deserve to be treated better than that. Give that guy a fork....he's done and you don't need his crap.
2006-06-20 16:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flow get the restraining order in case you could flow away then think of roughly doing that sounds to me like he can not resign he thinks you're his for stay if yo have family contributors in yet another city then see in case you could flow stay with them and initiate over he's already telling a restraining order can not end him so i could communicate over with my family contributors and ask for there help
2016-10-31 05:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this guy's shoes before. Ive got a couple reasons (possibly) for him acting like this:
1.) You're embarrassing for one reason or the other.
.......this could be because you are a bit younger than him, and he's afraid his friends would make fun of him for liking you, so he ignores you in front of them.
.......Another reason he might be embarrassed is maybe you are up to his standards, but maybe not up to his friends standards. And to avoid ridicule, he simply just ignores you.
2.) Scared of a possible confrentation, or maybe from competetion.
.......Maybe in the past one of his friends told him that they were really into you, or maybe they are currently into you, and he feels that if he shows affection for you in front of them, before he is sure that he has "got" you (aka you 2 bf/gf) that your friend might try to make a move.
.......In the past perhaps, you dated one of his friends, or fooled around or something, and he doesn't want to make you or the guy uncomfortable around each other.
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Remember, even if you think he is ignoring you, it may not be out of disrespect, it may be, in a sense, to protect you. A time or 2 when this same situation happened to me, I didn't realize it was an issue until my friends really did show up. ---> story: i went boating to a near by lake with my friend and his sister and her friend, and me and (the friend) really hit it off, similar to what you describe. I was 17, and she was 14, i really liked her. She came over to my house about a week later to come swimming, and i was very excited. My friend already knew we liked each other we had talked about it, so he wasn't a big deal. But, there was other kids swimming at our house. So when she showed up i all of the sudden realized that i was uncomfortable showing my affection for her infront of my friends. It was easy for me to tell them about her when she wasn't there, but as soon as she showed up, it was hard for me to act sensative, and respectful to her, when usually my friends and i talked with a different attitude around each other.
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Basically, i think its an issue of 2 worlds colliding. (Your guy pal) and his friends are used to talking to each other in a certain way, and you and him are acting a totally different way around each other, and he doesn't know how really to act when both are around. So, having spent more time around his friends in the past, and perhaps this relationship with you being new, he reverts to his friends, because he is more comfortable with them, and used to their company.
In conclusion, he's not just "acting" like he likes you, he most certainly does, he's just afraid to show it. Talk with him about it, perhaps suggest some of these reasons. Try not to be too confrentational like: "so, do you think im ugly or something, and embarrassed to show me you like me infront of your friends?". Try to act understanding, and say you're happy he likes you, and that you like him back, and when he's ready, you want him to tell people so you don't have to keep it a secret. GOOD LUCK LITTLE LOVE BIRD! :)
2006-06-20 16:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Billy Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes embarassed by you or maybe he was just busy with his friends.
2006-06-20 16:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants in your pants but doesn't want his friends to know he's with you. Loose him now.
2006-06-20 16:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a poser
afraid of being called p^ssy-whipped
2006-06-20 15:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is so dumb he's shy to tell you his feelings or maybe he only wanted you to be his friend.....
2006-06-20 15:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by khatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋