being dominated by a bigger taller man?
2006-06-20 15:50:49 · 23 answers · asked by GTZEVRYTHNG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The loss of control that gets to me. I don't necessarily fantasize about actually being raped by some guy I don't know but I love when my boyfriend and I role-play and he "rapes" me...like I said, the loss of control that is a turn on.
2006-06-20 15:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As with anything it is all about the individual and fantasy doesn't mean that it is something welcomed in reality. Now, that is cleared I hope I can shed light on the subject. some women have that secret fantasy because of sexual repression(or secret guilty feelings about enjoying sex.) still others may subconciously be addressing the victim syndrome but the bottom line is that just because a fantasy is there doesn't all the time suggest erotica it could be an actuall moment in her life that she plays out in her mind to change her feeling of lack of control.
2006-06-20 22:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society has taught females that women who assert themselves sexually are just whores. So I believe that the rape fantasy is just a way of a woman's sexuality crying out for some attention since asserting ourselves sexually feels wrong. I think when a woman has the fantasy, she is convinced that if she cannot hep being raped then it is not her fault which makes her totally innocent and able to carry out a sexual fantasy at the same time that would seem acceptable to her own frame of reference.
Or on another note it just may be a freaky and playful thought that you may want to play out with your mate.
2006-06-21 17:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why they would have these fantasies but can tell anyone who answers to this question any other way besides "it sounds exciting" that it is not. I was brutally raped and kidnapped 4 years ago and it was the worst feeling in my life. They did overcome me with force and take me in a way I wont ever care to imagine again. Please don't have these fantasies. Never let a man feel like he has the upper hand in your sex life, one day he might just take it too far.
2006-06-20 22:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by christineh689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, personally, being raped is my fantasy as well. I guess it's because we like the feeling of being controlled. Personally, I get aroused by it. When I was only six years old, I would get aroused by it from watching movies about a guy raping a woman and I just grew up like that, even today.
2006-06-20 22:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say I've fantasized about literally being raped by anyone, but I have kinda thought about what it would be like to be with a really tall guy who's like over 6 feet tall ... I don't know, tall guys are just hot for some reason
2006-06-20 22:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by sarcasm_rulez_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman, But for some women, it is a way of dealing with past aggressions. For examle if she was raped in the past maybe she believes that she deserves it now. But for other that might be the case.
2006-06-20 22:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is the idea of being taken control of in this setting. If a woman is in control of every aspect in her life, it is one thing she wants someone else to control. Also maybe the fantasy of a little roughness, but you know you won't get hurt.
2006-06-20 22:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a sub concious thing, or maybe issues with control. Maybe some are just into that stuff for whatever reason..I know a girl that liked to be choked when she was about to have an orgasam. She said it was like better than any drug. I told her she was crazy, but whatever floats you're boat..
2006-06-20 23:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each there own I suggest role playing as apposed to getting in dangerous situation
2006-06-20 22:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by sdoobie69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋