he said he has no reason to watch it..is this kinda weird??or should i be happy i have a great guy.
2006-06-20 15:47:56 · 22 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys watch porn when they jerk off. So yeah, it's really sweet that he doesn't sit around the the TV and **** off anymore. What a special feeling knowing that you've taken the place of his hand and a tripple X rated video. I hope you both write your own wedding vows.
2006-06-20 16:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry dear, but i agree with most of the mens answers. i believe that he is just telling you what you want to hear especially if you made a big deal about it before. my bf used to watch it all the time and at times hide it, but you know what it took for him to change- being a catholic and going to church and knowing that it is a sin and having to confess to it when he watched it. now he doesnt watch it, and when he did once or twice he did tell me, because he knew that he should. another thing is, if you're really concerned about the porn,look all over the house for it, you will probably find some, under the bed, in closest, in drawers, mixed in with other movies, in his car, garage, and most of all ON THE COMPUTER- YOU CAN DO A HISTORY CHECK AND ALSO CHECK ALL OF THE FILES UNDER INTERNET OPTIONS- VIEW FILES AND YOU WILL TRULY KNOW IF HE'S LOOKING AT IT ONLINE- EVEN IF HE DELETES THE HISTORY, the sites will always remain....... good luck and i hope your right, b/c porn can be a real relationship problem for a lot of ppl. if you do find something make sure you have proof when you confront him and if he has lied about this, then think about what else he could be lying about. if you plan on marriage you need to be aware of his habits and how honest he really is. if you choose to ignore this, then you are only setting yourself up for trouble later and you wont be able to rehash this issue successfully later, it never works.
good luck
2006-06-20 16:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, you must be a very attractive women. For a man to give up porn or lose interest in it. That's just incredible. But if you like porn and want to watch it, let him know that you want to with him. But most of all Just be happy with each other.
2006-06-20 15:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by JACK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy but be smart.Just because he is with you doesnt mean he has stopped , just because he said he did.When I met my mate, now husband, I hated cigs smoking, so he told me he quit...for me.Then, later, I found out he would hide and smoke them and brush his teeth so I didn't know.We have been married 7 yrs now and he smokes openly.This dosent make our love less cause he didnt quit for me.Porn is ok, its just when it becomes obsessive.And if he does watch porn still, it's not a sin and it dosent mean you are less of a woman.It just means porn can be fun and arousing....for both of you.
2006-06-20 15:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy because once in his life he is satisfied. meaning that he loves you and he finds you hot, y, and satisfiying. what you rather have a guy obsessed with that pays no attention to you, or a guy that is head over heels for you and can't take his eyes off you. you need to figure out your feelings about this thought before you get married!
2006-06-20 15:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be weird either way? Do men HAVE to want to watch it? Of course not, it's a personal choice. Feel flattered he feels he has better to do with you then watch that stuff.
2006-06-20 15:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy.... he has all the sex he wants from you and doesn't need more...plus, ur knew... he has something else to think about other than the porn to get off to.
2006-06-20 15:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate! Bust out the champagne! You've got a magnificent fella.
2006-06-20 15:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This great guy? Isnt he the one that thinks you masterbating is cheating on him? Is this the same guy? Do you have 2 guys, or you making up stories?
2006-06-20 15:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so sweet. Nothing abnormal about it, just the way he feels. Very cute, sounds like you have a good guy.
2006-06-20 15:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋