I like this girl but she has a boyfriend and now she is calling me to her house while he's in. I am so confused. she said she wants to hangout with me? what is going on, anybody know?
2006-06-20 14:41:56 · 26 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There could be a few reasons why she is calling you that does not have to do with sex. Maybe she thinks that your the kind of guy that she wants her boyfriend to hang with. Maybe he don't have many friends. Maybe you are the pony that is cut from the herd. Either way it don't matter. have they ever done anything to make you feel uncomfortable. My friends wife calls me all the time. and Not to talk with my wife. We are truely just friends. If you are confused, sometime when you have a private moment with her, just ask her whats up. She will let you know whats going on if she is your friend. Or if they are looking for something a little more out of the friendship. Good luck.
2006-06-20 14:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by JACK 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are really friends, than whats the problem?? My daughter had a boyfriend living with her and they both had their friends there all the time. Eventually, her best friend moved in with them and it worked out great.
There was no hanky-panky or anything, just hanging and listenin to tunes and watching tv & movies. Lots of laughing and teasing. OH, and eating!!! I used to drop in on them all the time (to see what was going on - I admit) but everything was great.
Eventually, my daughter married her boyfriend, and the best friend and their other friends are now always at their new house. They have alot of friends and alot of fun. The guys drink a little beer, the girls make brownies or chocolate chip cookies and they all hang. Sometime just one of her friends will be there and she'll watch a movie, or sometime just his friend. Sometimes, whoever doesn't have the friend over will watch tv in the bedroom.
So what is making you uncomfortable? Do you think there is some sort of ulterior motive??
If not, enjoy your friend and her friend. Maybe through them you will meet someone you like.
2006-06-20 21:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by deborah m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be reading too much into this.
She might really only like you as a friend.
I am a girl and I have guy friends. I have a husband and I will hang out with guys on occasion.
I actually go riding with a guy friend of mine once a week. We have a blast and we are just friends.
If she is giving you other signals and getting close to your personal space, flirting, etc. Then maybe you need to have a talk with her. Be the mature person and say something.
2006-06-20 21:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by sha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even want to go to a home to see a girl if she is living with her boyfriend? stay away there are plenty of women out there, without boyfriends. Sounds like she is trying to get him jelous and that will only get you hurt.
2006-06-20 21:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to have a threesome? If you don't feel comfortable tell her and stay away while he's home or better yet go find a new friend that doesn't have a boyfriend.
2006-06-20 21:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that she may want to use you to make her bf jealous. Don't go. A fight may occur,you know. Find yourself a girl who has her head screwed on right. Good luck , friend.
2006-06-20 21:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger Will Robinson, Danger!
2006-06-20 21:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by themainsail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she not real happy with her boyfriend, an kinda likes you, but if i was you i wiould back off, because if the boyfriend fines out , than you have a real problemn, than again maybe she wants you both , keep your guard up.
2006-06-20 21:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either using you to make him jealous, or she's a bit of a freak and looking for something more.....I'd stay clear. Not a good situation for you.
2006-06-20 21:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Bad news. She calling you with one at home. She will never be trustworthy. Leave it alone.
2006-06-20 21:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Steffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋