was on and off with this guy for almost 2 years. When we got together, he would say that he didn't have time for a girlfriend right now, and I was cool with that. I had just got out of a relationship and I didn't wan a new man, I wanted a friend. So we would go out and have so much fun together. I did end up falling in love with him, but it took a really long time because I didn't want to. The only reason he told me tht we were not together is because he didn't have time for a girlfriend, but he told me that when he did want a girlfriend, I would be who he chooses. So we would hang out all the time, have sex, and I was guaranteed to be at every show that he did, especially since his manager and his friends would call me to make sure that I was going, but last night he brought some other female with him and was pratically stuck to her side the whole night, basically ignoring me! Not to mention that he was over an hour late and I stood outside with his friends waiting on him, but I have never seen her at any of his shows before. Since we are not in a committed relationship, I never believed that I was the only erson that he was talking to, but I thought we did have something a little more than just friendship. He was totally rude to me, he came over to my table and spoke for 2 minutes and I didn't talk to him the rest of the night because he was all up under her all night. I have spent so much money on supporting him and his dreams and he hurt me so bad because he basically treated me like I meant nothing to him. He was sick for the past couple of weeks and I called him everyday to check on him, which I never do, and the first time that I saw him after that was when he did this. What should I do? Should I give him a chance to explain himself or should I follow my first mind and tell him to kiss my *ss and never talk to me again?
2006-06-20 14:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your first mind... tell him to **** off. Go find someone who will appreciate you! Good luck.
2006-06-20 14:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't have time for a girlfriend? - no, the busiest people in the world find time for someone when it is someone they really want to be with. he didn't want YOU to be his girlfriend, he wanted a guarateed date and sex without committment and you provided that. Possibly now, he has found someone he "has time for."
I wouldn't call and tell him anything. Don't give him the time of day. If he feels he owes you an explanation, he will call within a few days, if he is done, he won't call and you will know. Bringing that girl to a place he knew you would be can only be his cowardly way of telling you he has found someone else without actually having to confront you. Take the high road and show some class by just not saying anything. (I know, easier said than done)
Move on and find someone who really wants to be with you and call this a lesson learned. People who love you find a way to make you fit into thier lives.
2006-06-20 21:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see what his explanation is first...then if you don't like it, tell him to kiss your ***!! He did you wrong after you were there for him! You at LEAST deserve an explanation and an apology! If you're not so available next time, he will wonder what YOU'RE up to!! That was ****** up!
2006-06-20 21:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by delfin716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him explain him self and if its not good then tell him 2 kiss it
2006-06-20 21:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by ~* me *~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to kiss you *ss, no wait, to wipe your *ss he is not worth your time. you deserve better than that
2006-06-20 21:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋