2006-06-20 14:35:53 · 33 answers · asked by still in the closet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no "normal" age to kiss someone. When you kiss someone its based on many different issues, such as physical attraction, and physical and emotional development. I would be interested in knowing why you haven't kissed someone? If you have not found a person you feel comfortable kissing is it because you feel kissing should be part of a committed relationship? Kissing will be very natural when you find that person who makes you feel comfortable. If you are afraid to kiss someone then you should look for websites that talk about kissing styles and practise on the back of your hand. No-one will be able to tell that you have never kissed before so relax and wait until you find the right person.
If you are not waiting for a committed relationship have you considered that you might not be attracted to women? Many times people who struggle with their sexuality surpress their natural attraction to " fit in" with the expectations of their family, friends and community. Be honest with yourself about your sexual attraction there is nothing worse then wasting your life living a lie. Good luck.
2006-06-20 14:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by candie_sue2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't say that it isn't normal. Most people feel that they need to kiss a woman or have sex because of peer pressure, maybe your'e just uncomfortable or shy which is totally ok. A lot of people are saying you may be gay, and I really doubt that is true. Have you ever dated a girl or been attracted to one. If so, next time give her a kiss, if you like it then great, if not, then there is a chance you are gay but don't automatically assume you are. There is NOTHING wrong with rejection. It probably happens more than childbirth, lol. If your scared she might reject u or not like it, don't worry because it happens to EVERYBODY, and remember, practice makes perfect, so just try it out, be daring!!!Hope this helps!
2006-06-20 14:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by One N' Only 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rare find, yes...but if you look at pop culture (40 year old, Wedding Story, Never Been Kissed), I'm guessing there are more out there like you than we assume.
2006-06-20 14:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little out of the ordinary, but as the saying goes:
Everyone marches to the beat of a different drummer!
I think Henry David Thoreau wrote that.
2006-06-20 14:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Oscar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahahaha!
I'm 10 years younger than you and have banged nearly 100 girls. And I started kissing girls at age 5. Plus I've made out with a few hot guys also.
The good news for you is, your future wife will probably find your lack of sexual history admirable.
2006-06-25 16:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Evan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is normal. Don't listen to those instigating you to find a hooker. Pls... be proud of your status! You are who you are and give your first kiss to someone who deserves it... Not any Mary, Jane or Lucy picked up by the road. Hope you find your true love soon.
(Disclaimer: I'm not trying to offend ladies with these names).
2006-06-20 14:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. im a girl. im 14. and even I have kissed a girl. that is not normal at all. get out there go to a bar or something
2006-06-20 14:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not normal, itz actually very awkward. not that u should be judged for that. becuz no one can decide when the kissing age iz. itz just often done b4 33.
2006-06-20 14:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Auntie Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid? Haven't met anyone? It's a little unusual, but I'm sure you're not the only one. Go to some singles parties.
2006-06-20 14:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are waayyyyyyyyyy more eerie and eccentric things going on in the world... But you are missing out kinda...don't worry I'm sure your nice and i bet you'll get your smooch by your next birthday!
2006-06-20 14:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋