CHEATING: physical or emotional?

Question

what's worse? cheating physically (anal, oral, plain ol sex) or cheating emotionally (falling in love with someone else)???

i was talking to my friend about this and i concluded that it would devestate me more if my man (hypothetically cuz i don't have 1) fell in love with another woman than if he f^cked someone else.

do you agree or disagree??

Answer 1

I agree the emotional would hurt more. Men sleep with women with no emotion at all just because the ***** is there, it can be just sex. But when he has feelings for someone there IS something about her and it makes you wonder

Answer 2

People don't usually cheat for no reason at all and never do it with the intentions of falling in love.

When someone cheats they generally are looking for something that is lacking in their committed relationship and most often don't even realize it until they've found it with someone else quite by accident. Those are the ones that usually end up falling in love.

Then there are the ones that are like a bad itch from a misquito bite that no matter how many times you scratch there's no relief. Just can't get that sexual satisfaction with one person.

The bad news is, one is not worse then the other. The one that ends up falling in love will eventually leave and the other will tell you that they still love you, but just be more cautious the next time around when the itch comes back.

Answer 3

Cheating is cheating whether it's physical or emotional. We are all aware of what is wrong or right. We know if our actions will hurt somebody or not, It just depends on if the individual has the integrity and honor to choose the correct path to take. If you feel anything for anybody else other then the person that you are commited too you need to reacess the relationship before you make any moves.

Answer 4

Women are for sex and not much else. Who the hell cares if they cheat with someone or what they feel for someone else. As long as they don't pass on a disease to me, I don't care. On that note, I freely, with or without telling them, have sex with whomever I want, whenever I want.

The rare (and I do mean EXTREMELY rare) woman who is for more than sex, wouldn't cheat either emotionally or physically. If she did, all that would mean is I was mistaken about her nature. No biggie. Give me a couple of days and I'll have a hot new piece of *** in my bed.

Answer 5

I agree with you and think cheating emotionally would be more devastating than cheating physically. As human beings, by nature, our emotional and mental needs are much different than our physical needs. Loving someone is very different to having sex with someone.

Answer 6

i disagree. both are bad but if someone love u .really love u that person would not have anal,oral or plain sex with onyone buit just u..emotionaly mithg be easier cuz if he care about u .he tell u how he feel about it n try to make u understand why he leaving

Answer 7

Both would end my relationship with him, I couldn't be with a man I couldn't trust. But yes.....if he fell in love with someone else it would hurt more. That's a betrayal of the heart, not just the body.

Answer 8

I think they are both bad...because all though it is probably worse that he fell in love with another girl..he obviously doesnt love you if he would cheat on you with another women..so both of those are pretty bad

Answer 9

In my eyes BOTH ! In a relationship, you both are together, and there is No right or wrong,,CHEATING IS CHEATING! I wouldn't do that to a man, and i expect the same back.If things aren't going right , and they cant be worked out. Then do right by your partner ,,,, split up first! Peace.

Answer 10

I agree with you. I used to think physical was worse but after my fiance fell in love with someone it hurt more then when he cheated on me phsycally. so i agree with you.