i use to have alot af black friends but then i had sex with a black guy . im white and all of my friends considerd me black. but when they found out the all stabed me in the back but the real problem is my best freind is black and i like him and he likes me but im not supose to know the likes me.
what sould i do go with him or keep the friends i have cuz if i go with him it will start all this drama again what sould i do?
be serious
2006-06-20 14:25:00 · 8 answers · asked by tymeydee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I don't get why your friends would care. If they accepted you as 'black', then it would be expected that you would like black men. Did one of your friends like him, or maybe used to go out with him?
Girl, if you like this boy, then do what you like. You can let all of your happiness depend on what others think.
2006-06-20 16:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by long_ebony_locs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings for each other should not come down to colour.
If you like him and he likes you - who cares about the inter-racial relationship? Why do you let your friends and others dictate you?
You need to make the decision yourself - I think you are just scared of the rumours and slander that may happen.
If I were you I would bite the bullet and go for it - you should make decisions for yourself and not for others.
2006-06-20 21:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP ALL YOUR FRIENDS... i taught that racial issue ended long time ago.. if someone think ur black or white its fine .. just keep on being you, and dont hypothec ur friends for a dude, u will be disapointed
2006-06-20 21:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what will make you happy. If you two really care for each other than go for it. If they were your true friends they would be happy for you. Good luck.
2006-06-20 21:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those don'tsound like real friends, friends sorry to say come and go out of your life
2006-06-21 17:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always talk about you when they jealous. Go with your heart Sweety!
Willys cynical thought for the day;
There is 1 sure fire 100% way to failure; trying to please everybody!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-06-20 21:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have sex with so many people is bad.
2006-06-20 21:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by sukh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if e likes you. if he admits that he does then tell him that you like him. if your friends aren't supportive of that then they really aren't good friends.
2006-06-20 21:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋