I have a new girl, who is a friend of my current girlfriend. How do i break up with my girlfriend without telling her about her friend? I want to lessen the pain for her as much as possbile. Help!
2006-06-20 13:53:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no easy way, she will find out eventually so just be honest. Good luck.
2006-06-20 13:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going to find out anyway - then she will really be made because you made her out to be foolish. Tell her the trust - lt her deal with it. But shame on you! Of all the girls in the world you have to go for her friend? Thats double pain for her - not only does she loose her boyfriend - she also looses her friend - the one person she would go to about loosing you. Shame, Shame, Shame! There will be pain no matter what so man up! Tell her the truth and live with the consequences.
2006-06-20 20:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Linda H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your new girl was really a friend she wouldnt be seeing you on the side, but other than that just be honest with your current girlfriend. Im sure she deserves the truth from both of you. Better she hears it from you two than from somebody else.
2006-06-20 20:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is be honest to her, i know you have a reason maybe they are different and you are more comfortable to your new girl. Look i am a girl' but if i am in the situation of your current gf maybe it is hurt for me but i must feel better if you will be honest. What i really mean is if you don't want to hurt her feelings you can talk about it you need to settle a date just the two of you and talk about your problem, maybe she can be your friend after all.
I hope your current gf can move on. gud luck to you
2006-06-20 21:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweetiegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will be the same there is no way to lesson it. .Just tell her you are interested in someone else. if she ask who just tell her it is none of her business.she will eventually find out it is her friend but by then she can't tell you anything. Just try to avoid places she may go to for a while, because may make a scene
2006-06-20 21:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it's not working out for you and you want to stop seeing each other. In the future, break up before you get a new gf!!!
2006-06-20 21:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and be honest. She is gonna get hurt regardless. Do you think she won't know that you will be dating her friend? She will lose you and her g/f. Besides what kind of friend steps out on her g/f. Do you think she wont do the same to you?
2006-06-20 20:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dontt think she is gonna notice you with her friend?if you have to hide it then it isnt that good, and if you want to save her some pain,tell her the truth.
2006-06-20 21:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you dont think it is going to work out, but you want to be friends. Classical, but it'll work!
2006-06-20 20:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. She'll find out anyway (probably hate you for awhile anyway) so man up and spill it.
2006-06-20 21:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by JerseyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋