we have been broken up for 7 months, after the break up we always kept in contact i tried a couple of time to get back together but she s not ready to commit. we had a tough relationship with lots of arguing. but for a month now i have been distance because i see no progress on a relationship. plus she has played lots of game with me because i was throwing my love at her and she took it for granted hanging up on me pretending to not hear me and getting jeolous that i having fun with my life. now i called her yesterday to let her know i m going to pick up my clothes i called to keep the convo short and sweet but she kept wanting to talk and she even asked me why i dont call or email her anymore. i told her i just dont have time to and i ask her why dont u call me she told me she busy herself so i ask her why do u want for me to call u then if u so busy i hung up on her and she call me back asking many question about contact
why?? what should i do or say oart of me wants her
2006-06-20 13:48:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, she has the princess syndrome. Women who are immature or insecure play this kind of game, where you are but one of many suitors who she can call whenever she's in the mood. Doing this to you makes her feel in control, that she has the ultimate veto power.
She likes to flirt and it's possible that she has many other guys on the line, just in case she needs someone beside her whenever she feels lonely. Keep in mind that it doesn't have to be you. I'm sure she knows how you feel about her and she's just playing the "What's wrong with you" to manipulate you into feeling confused and guilty for acting like a stranger without provocation.
You were going in the right direction. Keep your feelings to yourself and maybe explain briefly that you don't like to wait for her to make up her mind. That single sentence will be a good reason enough because she acts like she doesn't know what she's doing, when in reality, she knows and enjoys acting like an innocent dove. Keep away from her.
The weird thing is, when you stick to your resolve, she will think about you more than she used to. Human emotions are all wired in a strange way so that when you withdrawl your attention away from her, she will now be the one who makes the move to pursue you. Chances are good that she will call you more often and come around.
Now it will be you who will control the relationship. Be a man and either send her off on her merry way, or accept her and be the sweet boyfriend you always have been.
2006-06-20 13:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either get back together or get the hell away from her. Only you can decide which is the best thing to do. Sounds though like she just wants you to want her, but doesn't really want you. Good luck.
2006-06-20 20:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who thinks the American educational system has let this man down?
2006-06-20 20:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ghost of War 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she just wants to play games with you i would just move on dude and good luck with that one
2006-06-20 20:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you call her and talk about it
2006-06-20 20:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋