okay i am in love with my ex and when we were together we were both in love with each but i guess it didn't work out b/c it was long distance and i did some really fu(k up shyt to him but he forgave me now we are like the closest friends evr i mean he the on;y person i can tell any and evrything to and he knows to very well (he even know when i have ma period w/o me even acting different or saying a word bout it) but okay he is moving down where i live now and i still love him alot i been trying to get over him but i just can't stop[ thinking about him. i am too scared to tell him that i still love him b/c i don't want to mess up our friendship i think he still loves me but is scared to say it too. but now he is coming to see me and i am scared that something might go wrong i mean i want to be with him but also i want to give him space since he just moved down here. i truely deeply love him and don't know what to say or do. i get so nervous when i talk to him ? what should i do?
2006-06-20 13:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by Lady C'Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you only live once. Some of the best relationships start out as friendships. If it's meant to be it WILL be there's no stopping that. go for it now rather you or he for that matter ends up with someone else and you two are saying your shoulda,coulda,wouldas.DON'T hide your feelings, be true to yourself besides your bestfriends you should be able to keep it real no matter what.
2006-06-20 13:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunshyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK First, if he knows you well enough to know when your having your period without you telling him then it'd wouldn't surprise me if he knows that you still love him.
Second, I fell in love with someone who just wanted to be my friend and one of my biggest regrets is not coming right out and telling her.
Third, I have an ex who I'm good friends with and occasionally she'll ask me if i think we might ever get back together and I'll tell her maybe or just something like "you know being with you was great but I don't have those feelings for you anymore" and we're still really good friends. In fact i really needed to talk to someone last night so i called her up.
2006-06-20 13:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by tygerphlyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time in person and see if there are any "moments" between you when you think he might be thinking abt you getting back together. Then just say that you've been thinking abt your relationship a lot and would really like to give it another chance.
2006-06-20 13:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends he will want to see you just as much as you do. Do not put pressure on yourself to tell him anything. Just be with him and let him know, by the way you act, that you love him.
What ever the past is just get on with the future.
If he loves you he will let you know with his actions also.
2006-06-20 13:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to him and see how he truly feels about you. If not, your going to go on thinking about him and wondering how he really feels about you.
2006-06-20 13:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to dam long to read !!!!
2006-06-20 13:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋