Where do YOU go to look for girls? I want serious answers from the "good" guys....the guys who don't cheat or abuse their girls.
And please explain to me why you are a good guy....what do you do for your girls, how do you treat them...were you raised that way?
2006-06-20 13:36:38 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sadly, i have to say that there arnt to many "good guys" anymore. but i like to treat girls with respect. if i meet a girl at a movie or somthing and we hit it off, i would just talk to her, mabey buy her somthing and if things went well i would ask for her number and see her again somtime.
2006-06-20 13:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by cooly619 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, I gave up on intentionally looking for girls. Meaning I don't go out with the guys with the plan of finding a girl. I gave up on that a while ago. If I am out and happen to meet someone by chance, that is another story.
Why am I a good guy?
Well, I would have to say that I have never cheated on a girl, I have never been physically or emotionally abusive, and I have always been a good listener. I was raised by my mom and older sister. Also...i always put the toilet seat down.
2006-06-20 20:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by whitetornado_ns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys don't have it easy. Chances are, you probably know one or two, but don't even know that they have a crush on you or something.
Bars/clubs are generally a no-no. Instead try coffee houses.
The gym is a good place too, but can get kinda awkward if the girl is trying to get her workout going without interruption.
Church is also a good place too, but once again, it isn't uncommon for a girl to be seriously into God far more than she is into guys. Usually girls like that are nice, but they often come with a loooooooot of baggage.
Most good guys are raised that way. In fact, it is said that most guys are good guys until they get burned by that one girl they fell madly in love with. Then they switched over to the darkside and got her! Or maybe her cute best friend...
2006-06-20 20:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by jermaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to my profile and check the three questions i asked, that will tell you a litle bit about me.. i don't go out and look for girls any where, i either find them in school or where i work... i am too shy to go for HUNTING on the streets... i treat a gurl write, take her out, never look on another gurl... i can't even explain that because it is so natural to me...
I have a gran father who was a in the chivalry and he raised my father that way, and i was raised with the respect of women... not treat them as if they are week or something, make them simply feel they are women, a flower, a smile, a kiss... holla at me if you want to know more, unless my answer will become borring...
2006-06-20 20:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a "good guy" is tough most girls say that's what they want but they really want a guy who will "conquer" them. As a good guy I planned weekend trips to Vegas, Christmas in Colorado and a drive to some place we have never been just for fun. I gave flowers for no reason. I wrote poetry and made mix tapes. I cooked romantic candle lit meals. I took Salsa dancing classes. I listened and made myself emotionally available. I made love slow and sensuously. But in the end the girls take advantage of you and walk all over you. It's not worth it. It's so much easier to be a jerk and get laid. Sorry but if you don't play the game. You don't get any play.
2006-06-20 20:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by -Uriah- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good guy. I don't cheat on girls b/c i have ballz to look a girl in the face and tell her if this will work or not. It's like quiting a job you worked at. you'll miss it, but it was better for you. i look for girls anywhere to talk to build confidence. i make sure also on a sexual note that the girl is satisfied in bed before i am. you may think i'm b.s. but roll the dice and see what happens.
2006-06-20 20:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by neal091982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a great guy. I met my wife in a bar in Tijuana. There's no punchline that's the truth.
Stop looking so hard. You're not going to find a man in one particular place. Well, it does help if you're not looking in crack houses, but you get the idea. Speak to people, network, make friends. It might be a girl you meet who sets you up with the man of your dreams.
Just go and live life, don't be desperate.
2006-06-20 20:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by gypsynuke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most important thing is respect for one another.
Values and morals are very important. Love and attention mean nothing unless you respect each other. Don't put people down,
be a gentlemen, make every attempt to understand her point of view. Be interested in the person inside, not the fluff on the outside. Ask questions and listen, and for god's sake be honest.
2006-06-20 20:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by rjm96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i geuss i really dont go out looking i just live my life and wait for girls to cross my path.
i treat girls with respect i try to be a freind and earn their respect. i guess i was raised that way my dad never did anything to hurt my mom
2006-06-20 21:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Evan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for girls at the beach & the mall.im kind,generous,very caring,sensitive,very passionate,& complimentary.I do my best to treat them like a queen.I open doors,pull out chair etc.I give tons of hugs & I hold on to them very tight,I cook for my girl,give massages,hold hands everytime we go out.But I dont know why girls wont give me a chance and go out with me.I think girls knowadays dont want nice guys.They go for the guy with the six pack,who tells jokes,rides a motorcylce with tattoos & are very cocky,& dress like trash like Kevin Federline & cant even take care of themselves & they say the dumbest things on Earth & they treat girls like objects.
2006-06-20 20:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋