Does sexual power corrupt just as much as other forms of power??

Question

They say "power corrupts". I have a question about that... here it is:

In relationships, women control sex. They say yes or no to sex. If they
have their period or if they "are not feeling sexy" then the answer is no.

and we all know: "no means no".

Since men want sex most all the time (remember, this is a generalization and I'm sure there are specific exceptions to what I'm saying here), that gives women the ability to say no and use sex as a weapon or as a way of denying
a man. The end result: She now has power over him.

"Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutly."

If women want a relationship so badly, why do they use sex as a weapon in a relationship????

Answer 1

All power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. This is the popular saying, though true it must be taken for what it truly means. It means that anytime anyone gets power, either over one or many, even if it is only implied power. It is their responsibility to use that power correctly. The fact that women seem to control sex is mainly due to the sociological make up of our society. Women get propositioned every day, in almost every situation even the innocent ones. Though men may not think themselves doing so, women often do perceive these remarks, looks and the like in much a different way. Remember we as men have always had to ask for sex, most women have not. Women are usually the ones who say no, the reason being if they accepted every advance, they would be having sex 24/7 and would have time for little else, that and the social stigma that would be attached. Sex has always been us as a means of manipulation, and always will be as long as the man places so much value on it. A weapon is only useful if it hurts. If it doesn't what good is it.

Answer 2

Hello,
I assume from the perspective you write that you are not able to separate your whole self from your sexual needs. This you must learn to do, and then no can ever have this "power" over you.

Also, get a grip on the truth. There are as many men as there are women, who don't want much sex after the "honeymoon period" in a relationship ends. The average is about 2 months into the sexual part of the relationship.

Only if YOU make YOURSELF a victim of your sexual needs, can the other person control you. Separate your sexual needs, and define your personality, and everything else about yourself without the requirement to satisfy those needs. If you must masterbate, or use self-mind-control to get a grip on reality, then do what ever it takes.

Sex is great, when BOTH people want it the same amount of time. Try to pick a partner with the same level of libdo as you have. If you want it 15 times a month, get a mate that wants it about the same number of times.
If you want it 3 times a month, get a mate that wants it that few times too.
So, it is really wise, to not give your heart away, until you discover after a few months, if you two are sexually compatible in your frequency of libido.
Neither frequent, or infrequent is wrong. Rather, a good match is great!
There is so much more to a relationship than the sex part.
There is TRUST, and FRIENDSHIP that are essential to the equation with LUST, that equal a good long lasting LOVE.

More than just the sex part
I wish you all the elements of LOVE
stw

Answer 3

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