ok I am in a relasonship and a im very happy, however my exBF is out telling everyone that he is still in love with me and that im still in love with him!!!
I have told him that i dont want him anymore, and that i am happier with out him...
Now my boyfriend has found out about ny ex and he wants to kill him,
I dont want my ex dead, but i want him to get over me what can i do?
2006-06-20 13:12:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. He won't kill anyone. Don't be stupid. You're like, what, twelve?
2. Boyfriends really shouldn't be your priority, school should be. Whether someone is telling the "oh my GAWD whole school!" that you still "love" someone (love doesn't exist to someone your age), it doesn't matte in the big scheme of things. At all.
All you have to do is be the bigger person, not ask strangers over the Internet their advice, and get over it.
2006-06-20 13:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Belie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First: you cannot make your ex get over you. If he's hung up on you, he's hung up on you. If you were leading him on in some way, I'd say "knock it off", but it doesn't sound like you are.
Second: he can tell everyone in the world that you love him, but that doesn't make it true. If anyone asks, simply say "it's really sad; he's still really hung up on me, and can't accept that I've moved on. Poor, poor [his name here]."
Third: your boyfriend should also realize that your ex can't make you love him by saying that you do; in other words, he should spend less time getting angry about what the ex is saying, and more time being happy that in reality you love him (your current boyfriend) very much. If you two end up getting married and having kids, it will be something you'll laugh about someday, so you might as well laugh about it now.
2006-06-20 20:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to do anything. Focus on your new relationship and dont look back. It sounds like your almost over him. Let him be, you cant control others only our self. I'm sure your current man wants to kill him because he sees how your ex can still effect you. Move on and be true to your new man.
2006-06-20 20:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend. The only people that matter in your relationship is you and your boyfriend. You can explain that he is just proving why he is now your ex. Calm your boyfriend down (there are many ways ;) and move on with life).
2006-06-20 20:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your ex, and tell your boyfriend that you don't have those feelings for your ex. When ever you hear about more of his comments, just politely tell the person that your ex is lying
2006-06-20 20:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by tigrelis28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do not make the issue bigger than deserves ?if u really know u current bf and does have mind to think with he will not do anything wrong .
and for the ex bf u need to talk to him and tell him he have no chance with u and must go on with his life?
2006-06-21 20:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by future doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... if i was u i would have my current bf go and scare my ex just a little bit. U know just enough to scare him pee-less then maybe he would get the hint. If all else fails then it maybe time to call the law!!
2006-06-20 20:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by rainababy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. You and you boyfriend know the truth so who cares what other people say or think.
Tell you boyfirend is no worth going to jail over and calm down.
2006-06-20 20:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by rubyrudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend. This is just one more good reason in a long line of good reasons why your ex is your ex.
2006-06-20 20:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and tell your boyfriend to do the same. If you make a big deal out of it, your only fueling the fire.
2006-06-20 20:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋