I still care bout my exbf and want to be friends with benifits. I'm going to college far away in the fall so i know a relationship wouldn't work. I'm okay with that. So Is taht okay? I mean, is there anything wrong with it? I know that nothing will bring him back because he doesn't love me and doesn't want a relationship. I just can't figure out.
2006-06-20 13:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by tigrelis28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're letting yourself in for a heartache eventually.
2006-06-20 13:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing wrong with that is while you want the friends with benefits for your convenience, remember that it is not very "convenient" to wind up with an STD.
He is NOT going to wait for you when you might be availalble, on your terms for your trists...he'll be seeing other women too.
Don't make the mistake of thinking that if there is not LOVE involved that you won't have other emotions such as jealousy, possessiveness, etc. Those other little demons pop up very unexpectedly when you least expect them.
I strongly recommend you rethink this all the way through.
What is wrong with being celibate for the time you're in college?...your mind will certainly be clearer toward your studies if you are not involved with anyone.
You need to ask a different question. Don't ask is it wrong? Ask what is "best for me".
Study hard. Remember this formula:
16 hours a week per subject will get you an A.
The fewer the hours, the lower the result.
stw
2006-06-20 13:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong keeping him as a friend with benefits. Just make sure you don't keep an emotional attachment that could get you hurt in the long run. When he dates someone, just remember that you can as well. Keep the benefits. They are great! Makes you a bit closer friends anyway!
2006-06-20 13:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what's up tigrelis28-that's right the sky;the sky is open to possibilities and if the old b/f isn't up for your friendship and benis' then its a good thing he's XXd out. I'm sure you'll meet many new friends and have beni's with them to come.
2006-06-20 13:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by MOGLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
but give him a good ride so that he could remember u and then he will on your side and maybe change his mind about u-
2006-06-20 13:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um what.
2006-06-20 13:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by B is for Brutus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋