why was my x trying to keep me on the phone?

Question

i called my x gf last night to let her know i m going to pick up my clothes, we havent spoken on the phone for about 3 weeks and i barely email her anymore. before we used to email each other daily and several times a day. now i barely send a email a week. so i called her yesterday and i wanted to keep it short and sweet but she kept talkin and everytime i said let me let u go she will continue talking then finally i said i have to go and hang up and she called me 10 minutes later to ask what happen to the phone call. i explain to her i needed to go, then she began to ask me why i dont call her no more and why i dont email her as much. i told her, she is not contacting me why should i contact u, then she said she will start initiating convo with me, but she hasnt started
why is she doing this? what should i do ? what should i say?
i miss her part of me wants her back but she s not ready to commit?

helpppppppppppppppppp thanks

Answer 1

A friend gives hope when life is low, a friend is a place when you have nowhere to go, a friend is honest, a friend is true. A friend is precious a friend is u.

Answer 2

dude from a guys opinion chics do that all the time i just went through that. i think she is trying to keep you in her back pocket. like a safe zone or a fall back person. trust me just get your clothes and walk away. cause if you still kinda want her back but know its not going to work out your gona get hurt.

Answer 3

If she doesn't start contacting you now, then just leave it alone. She was just being insecure.
If she wants to know again why you're not contacting her tell her it's because you broke up.