OK, this gurl and I fought this summer. Now she's telling every1 that on the first week of school she's going 2 beat me up. And I'm not that strong and she's lk 3times bigger then me what should I do? Should I take self-defense classes? Should I do nothing at all? What?
2006-06-20 13:00:58 · 20 answers · asked by luweena93 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Performing Arts
well this is what i did when someone tried to beat me up i took a sock full of marbles and i hit her across the face with it and gave her a black eye and i was only like 8 and i lived in Everett it was awesome.good luck
2006-06-20 13:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by erica p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first fight should have ended it and it's too bad that it didn't but here's the thing. Reputation is important in school so you need to hold your street cred. If she insists on harassing you, just smile and be nice and pretend like it's over. Tell her that now that you fought, you feel better and you don't really want to fight again. If she says you are scared, yeah, cool, you ARE scared cause she is being a bully adn you should tell her so. No one wants to be a bully, unless they have never seen a freaking Disney movie... good lord!
Last of all, if it gets ugly and you think you are going to get hurt by this girl, remember that it's not worth getting into a big scuffle about. Kick her in the knee and get back. If she comes at you again shape your hand in a straight rigid form and strike her in the throat... NOT TOO HARD because you will kill her. Anything that would split the peel of a banana is too hard. So rather, just tap her there enough to scare her and get the hell away. But for me, the best option is to run like hell, but hey, we all got to protect our EGO right? And I thought only boys could be so ignorant.
2006-06-26 10:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by jeffrude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have weeks before the beginning of school, and things change. Why don't you talk to her about it in a neutral setting in a civilized manner instead of duking it out? What is wrong with using your best muscle - your brain? Think about what the fight was about, why it happened in the first place, write stuff down on paper, decide what you want to say - work on finding a feasible solution rather than getting upset about it. If you are afraid of meeting her in person, instead write her a letter - using "I" messages instead of trying to put blame on anyone. It defuses the situation. I had someone who declared that kind of thing on me, we talked it out when all was calmed down, and became best friends. You never know.
2006-06-20 13:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and stop acting like a scared little mouse. Communication is the first step. Say hey i heard this rumor... or
what ever, try to find out "why" she wants to cream you, and if you wronged her be mature and apologize. Also you can talk to a guidance councelor. But before anyone can effectivly solve a problem they have to know [a. who? b.what? c.where? d.why? and e.how?] Be more proactive and less reactive. Smiles and non violent peace!
2006-06-20 13:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by citizen ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it , always have a cocky face on but dont talk any sh!t what so ever , and plus school didnt even end yet ,so y are u worrying about something thats 2-3 months away from now. u never know ppl change over the summer.
2006-06-20 13:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by swtmoney116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone like a teacher. You won't be a baby. You will be protecting yourself and others. Just bc you need help sometimes does not mean you are a tattle tale you are just the only one to stand up.
2006-06-20 13:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, take self defense classes look in the phone book, see if you can find someone that teaches a street fighting type of marshal-arts. you shouldn't have to take crap off of anybody.a teacher or your parents might want to protect you but as much as they want to they can't watch your back every 5 minuets
2006-06-20 13:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, she's all talk. Just trying to scare you. So I'd try not to worry about it. If she does approach you, try to be the better person and tell her you don't want to fight her. If she persists and comes after you, run. If she's 3x's bigger than you, like you said, you probably run faster than her anyway.
2006-06-20 13:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by wendyc222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girl, while violence is not the answer, my mother always said, if they hit you, hit them back. So spend this summer working out and gaining confidence, and if she's still so bold come first day of school, you'll have something for that ***!
2006-06-20 13:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by cherripye99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would hit the gym and get into really good shape and then say nothing at all about it and if she says something to you just let her have it and if she doesn't then you have gained the work out.But more than likely when your classes start she will forget all about it.
2006-06-20 13:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by rebelchick1456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋