I say life wuz easier when i wuz 6. plz help Im so confused plz everyone answer?

Question

I liked "rd" for a whole school year, at the end of the year he asked me out, I said yes. well weve been going out for about a month. I cant go on one on one dates until Im 18 so I have to have another "girlfriend" there to like "chaperone " me so me and him hardly every actually hang out, we usually talk on the computer. and its kind of like boring, we can both NEVER find anything to say. the same goes to say on our "group" dates. I usually get stuck talking w/ my girlfrind the whole nite. a minute ago he asked me if I still like him.. he kept saying OVER and OVER again, SAY THE HONEST truth. u told me u never lie, and I truley try not to... so I told him the honest truth, I said, Usually I like u alot, but sometimes I think of u as just a friend. he then put broken hearts next to his name, and on this thin that u can put notes after your name, he put " I never got to do tht one thing" the "thing" wuz kiss me, a week ago he asked if when we next saw each other if he could kiss

me I said yes. we arent officially broken up and Im just so confused, advice would be greatly appreciated

Answer 1

rd_luvr,

Based on your SN, you really like this guy. My personal opionion, is that he's weak and insecure, the weaknesses women find least attractive. If I were you, I would move on.

BUT, if you really like this guy, and I mean REALLY like him. So that you feel a little weak in the knees when you see him or you still get butterflies when you're around him you should try and work it out. From what I've heard he's afraid of being replaced, a trait common with many weak and insecure men. He doesn't know the "in's and out's" of dating yet, as he is still young. I usually give my adivce to my fellow guys, but I'll help you out.

Ask "Open-Ended" questions! Don't ask questions that end with yes or no, you can ask anything else. Even "What's your favorite kind of cheese?"

Also, exaggerate a yawn in a funny kind of way to let him know your bored and he should do something about it.

My personal opinion is to find someone else, or maybe just take a "time-out" and see what else happens with other guys. If you don't find anyone better you can always come back, it seems like he'd welcome you with open arms.

I'm in my youth as well, "I know what's crackin' " ... Good Luck!

Answer 2

I had to read this a couple time to get this, so hear is my answer. How old are you? I thought RD's are Residential Directors for college. Are you in Boarding school? You to have split, don't talk to him Block him if you have to. Have some me time. Validation come from the inside, not some guy. move on there are other guys out there.

Answer 3

i comprehend while i replace into 18 there replace into no way i could evaluate being romantic with a 14 year previous.. yet now a days who's primary with of.. i admire your suggestions-set concept too many ladies will permit men do although just to be enjoyed.. have confidence your thoughts.. it takes women persons an prolonged time to try this.. you felt disregarded and you referred to as him on it.. yet he's 14.. he prob basically like the attention from the older female buttt the only way you will come across out is to ask him .. no person right here can truly inform you the way HE feels...

Answer 4

Honey, just chill. You have to talk with him alone, in person at least at your home. Then you don't need a friend to chaperone. If you really like this guy, I suggest you give him that kiss, even if it is at school. And just let him come to your house to be with him. And if you do go out, let your friend take a guy with her, so she has something to do.

Answer 5

Did I miss the question?