I got a stripper private show today to test my ability to feel sexual or something and i didnt feel nothing. Perhaps partialy because i'm kind of impotent but also, perhaps because stripers are strangers and i know they are faking any touching, feeling, hugging... Yeah it's all fake is that why i dnt feel anything? I'm sure i would feel a great feeling of joy with a real girlfriend just talking to her or kissing.. true?
2006-06-20 12:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to assume this is a sincere question.
Having a private stripper show is a terrible way to discover whether or not you're capable of feeling sexual urges. For some people, that sort of thing is highly arousing, and for some people, it's a huge turn-off; both reactions are within the range or normal. Everyone is different, and there's no one "test" that will work for all people.
If you're afraid that you're incapable of becoming sexually attracted to someone else, or incapable of feeling emotionally attached to someone else, you would do best to step back and pay attention to your own interactions with other poeple. Do you feel emotionally attached to your family and friends? Do you feel sexually attracted to someone you've just met, but who you find attractive and who flirts a little?
It sounds like you're old enough to get into a strip club, but you've never had a girlfriend. I'd recommend you avoid strip clubs and girlfriends for the moment, and concentrate on meeting new friends of both sexes, and all ages. Meet some new people, and allow yourself to feel emotionally attached to those you like, and sexually attracted to those you find attractive.
Doing this will make your emotional life richer, and help you expand your capacity to feel. And hey, if you're lucky, you'll meet a girl whom you feel attracted to AND emotionally connected to, and she'll feel the same.
2006-06-20 12:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in the Army I saw a couple of strippers too, and they didn't give me a rise. Yet I can perform sexually. You answered your question yourself when you realized that a stripper is just faking it. Most of them look at the audience; just like carnival workers do, as marks just ripe for the plucking.
2006-06-20 12:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probly...
2006-06-20 12:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by homebouy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ugly.
2006-06-20 12:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by igotalife2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are either gay or muslim. which is it?
2006-06-20 12:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by texasmiss2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
2006-06-20 12:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋