Ok thats an exageration, but this guy just called my fone four times and it rang for ages! He used to do that in the past, i sometimes didn't answer because it kinda freaked me out.
I get really panicky and think what if he's outside my house watching me, i wouldn't be surprised...I was at work and the phone rang...it was him, he rang me at work and went through the yellow pages to get the number, do you think this is weird?
I hadn't heard from him in months and then all of a sudden he starts ringing me again he says it's because he looked at the pictures of me and he realised how much he liked me, should i be freaked out?
He says how much he wants me, i don't know what to do but it makes me cringe the thought of him touching me...have i just answered my own question.
Anyway does he sound a weirdo?
PS: This is the same guy who turned round and said he was good in bed!
2006-06-20
12:43:31
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lol holy sh*t. That dude sounds like a stalker to me.
2006-06-20 12:47:28
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answered by Mr. Lemons 4
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It's a toughie without knowing his character. He just sounds really keen on you (obviously!) so you need to find a way to tell him you're not interested in a sensitive way. Is he a previous boyfriend because you say he he has photos of you and mention the past? Maybe say that you're not interested in a relationship right now and would appreciate it if he left you alone. Or if you think it would be okay just say you have a boyfriend? P.S. Never believe a guy who says he's good in bed! He's obviously desperate to get your attention by saying that. If you ask him to stop calling you and he continues then get further advice because then that would be a bit worrying. Good luck!
2006-06-20 12:55:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe so ... Never take feeling vulnerable or frightened of someone for granted as you never know what he/she is capable of doing. You really need to find out who this person and report this matter to the police and tell your neighbour, family and friends, just in case he comes around when your not at home they can be a witness and do keep a diary of events.
Also, try changing your numbers this does help, or get call barring, caller display etc... It really depends on how you feel and how far you want to take this.
Good luck & be safe!!
2006-06-20 22:26:28
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answered by Sweetlips 2
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If women would use their gut feelings it would prevent a lot of rapes, murders, and other THINGS WE NEED TO AVOID! If he freaks you out, there's a reason! This guy sounds like he's got a problem and you need to report him. And be very careful!
2006-06-20 12:48:46
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answered by missingora 7
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Tell this guy to get lost. period. Tell him in a nice way though. Say you're not my type and sorry but I'm not attracted to you. I'm flattered that you are with me but it won't work so please stop calling. If he persists then take it up with the cops if necessary.
2006-06-20 12:47:51
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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Is there any reason to be afraid of him? Or are you just nervous knowing that a guy likes you? If he's actually scary you should tell your parents/boss/whoever.
Otherwise, just tell him you're not interested and please don't call.
2006-06-20 12:47:45
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answered by daisy519 4
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yes he is stalking you and if you are frightened of him you should go and tell your local police station about this although maybe its just harmless and he doesnt mean to scare you maybe he is just trying to let you no that he likes you or something
2006-06-27 10:49:17
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answered by misty 4
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sounds like he gets OCD ( obsessive compulsive disorder) about the phone and or you, from time to time. he'll boil off eventually just smile and nod at him
2006-06-20 13:46:38
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answered by moonlighteightythree 2
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Well, where did he see your pictures at? I don't think he is stalking you yet....but I would be worried too.....ummm, not really that sure though.....has he done anything else?
wbs, Helper
2006-06-20 12:53:22
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answered by Anonymous
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get a life
2006-06-20 12:46:39
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answered by Anonymous
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