My boyfriend and I are in college and have been together for almost a 1 yr. He just went home for the summer and suddenly confronted me that he has mixed feelings for me and his ex. He mentioned that he dosen't know if its the distance thats making him feel this way but this is it. He broke up with me by saying he needed to reaccess himself. His ex and him are not together b/c she cheated on him and had a baby. I have been totally faithful and I feel dissappointed. He knows what he has done and I gave him until this summer to make up his mind so I can move on. He knows he is wrong and he has been trying to make things right by calling me and carrying on conversations. Apart of me wants to ask him to stop calling me if he can't come to a decision. But the "good and faithful" gf I am giving him time. He has been calling me and I have just been listenin as if I care but I don't and I haven't been passive or needy with him as if he knows I can't be without him if we break up. Help Me?
2006-06-20 12:07:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not waitin believe me I'm fine. I have been going out and all. I just want him to actually tell me officially that its over or not so I can delete his number and remove him out of my life.
2006-06-20 12:39:32 · update #1
Move on, girl. The guy has got a whole lot of baggage and is obviously undecided. Do you want to spend your best years waiting around with him going back and forth? Plus, he dumped you. So, be cool, withdrawn on the phone, keep a distance - at least in the near future.
2006-06-20 12:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Just Dump Him I Mean If He Doesnt Know What To do Just Dump Him But You Dont Have to take my word for it
2006-06-20 12:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, but it sounds like you need to move on. Why would you want someone who doesn't totally adore you? . Don't give him the power of "picking' you. You should be loved whole heartedly and without question.You deserve it.
2006-06-20 12:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by heidinichole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on, maybe if he thinks he lost you, he will come to a decision faster. What do you want? Don't wait for him, YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!
The old cliche saying: if you love 'em let 'em go, if it's meant to be they will come badk to you>
2006-06-20 12:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by calicandy27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Tell The guy to make up his mind already. Tell him you want him to decide once and for all and if he doesnt then you should tell him you wanna see other people. You cant wait around for this guy forever.
2006-06-20 12:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me and I loved him it would probably be hard but I would try my best to leave him because he doesn't deserve you, he had a chance, why don't guys want us when we're right there, that's when they should take advantage not after it's to late but they wouldn't do what we wont allow.
2006-06-20 12:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by eciyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him cause if he loved you he would never have feelings for another woman that includes his ex and he would beg to stay with him soo leave him and move on you seem like a great girl soo you'll find the guy for you!!!!
2006-06-20 12:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sammie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with him,this is not your one true love not your soal mate,if he has mixed feelings then that shows you that youyr not the one for him when you meet the right person they will only love you not anyone else or have mixed feelings about you
2006-06-20 12:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you waiting for him to choose between you. What would you do if you continue to wait and she chose her. How would you feel.? As females, we are the ones giving them the power.
2006-06-20 12:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-06-20 12:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋