My financial aid didn't come through and theres a night club that i was offered a job at. I enjoy dancing and Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. im just afraid what people will think of me if they found out about it.
2006-06-20 11:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by Aide p 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You need to think about long term consequences. If you plan on being a school teacher or running for political office I can guarantee that this will have a negative impact. Also, some schools will suspend their students if they are working in a job like this. I think it is usually if you are on a sports team but it might be other organizations too. Also, think about what would happen if someone from your school saw you. Would you be humiliated or embarrassed? If so, you definitely should not do this job.
2006-06-20 11:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too hard to find a job at a restaurant or grocery store. I wouldn't do it, escpecially for your bf. I mean, what if he got naked in front of tons of "looking" girls? How would that make you feel? I know if my bf did that I would kill him. I don't see how he could be OK with that, another option is 4 him to get a job. It is possible. Take stripping as an absolute last resort. You must be pretty to get offered that job, don't abuse that and take your body for granted.
2006-06-20 18:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about having disgusting old drunken men leering at you and shoving grimy dollars at you before you make your decision. Better yet, go to the place you're thinking of working at one night and chill in the back and watch how the "customers" treat the girls and see if you could really picture yourself doing that. There has to be something else besides stripping that you could do, don't give up.
2006-06-20 23:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Surferchic50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are comfortable doing it then your fine but look around for other jobs before u take that one just watch the movie players club it will be a really good movie on the pros and cons of being a stripper
2006-06-27 16:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by kaleiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really a choice you must make for yourself. However I do know many college girls that dance at nightclubs to make it and pay their tuition. It is not wrong for them, and if anyone thinks it is wrong, then they need to pay the students way themselves.
Oh and by the way you should have used "you're" rather than "your". Because you're meaning "you are".
2006-06-20 18:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by jeb_oi812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong to sell your body for money, even if people are only looking at it. I think you could find another job that would help you to keep your self-respect.
2006-06-20 21:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really can't be answered by anyone but yourself. If you feel comfortable about it and it doesn't affect your relationship then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. You have to establish you're own set of morales... don't depend on everyone elses' morales.
2006-06-20 20:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about what people think, if you're comfortable doing it and dont feel ashamed then you should go for it. You wouldn't be the first college student doing so.
2006-06-20 18:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
selling sex for money has been around a long time, the bible says treat ones body as a temple of God, I see no harm in bringing others pleasure, only dont take it to far, what does your heart tell you?????/
2006-06-20 21:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. The only question is do you have a problem with it? If not, carry on.
2006-06-27 15:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by discostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋