im 15..he's 18...didnt use a condom?

Question

soo im 15 and i wuz messin around with my cuzins old friend...he juz turned 18...well yea i lost my virginity 2 him.. adn well he didnt use a condom..and im like freaking out now....and i juz cant believe i wuz so dumb and didnt ask or anything..it juz never crossed my mind...im period is suposta start in a few days and i juz wanna kno how likely is it 4 me 2 b pregnate...and well...how do i tell my cuzin without him like killing me and him...cuz he's gonna find out sooner or later cuz he's friends with my cuzin.....but yea i kno im worrind 2 much but..idk i juz cant help it..it's all i think about

Answer 1

People Who cant spell should NOT HAVE SEX!! JUST MY 2 CENTS!

Answer 2

Try being more responsible, writing your questions more legibly, and getting yourself a pregnancy test. There is no such thing as "accidentally" having sex - you know what you're doing. So, you made a mistake and now you have to live with it. Try calling a local Planned Parenthood to talk to them about getting a pregnancy test as well as an STD test. They keep your information private and are there in case you don't want others (like your parents) from finding out you need a pregnancy test. Or, you could always buy one from a store - BUT you should also take the STD test from a doctor. Even if your period does start, you should still get an STD test done - Even, and especially, if he says he is sure he doest have STDs! You still never know! some STDs don't show symptoms until months later. Better to find out sooner when it is easier to seek help, than later after you've also infected other people without knowing.
Best to just pull your cousin aside and let him know what happened sooner rather than later.
Start carrying around condoms in your purse in case the situation comes up again. Hopefully the next time around you will be more prepared.
15 is still to young for sex, grow up a bit more first then start exploring! Don't grow up so fast, you'll regret it when you are older. This situation just goes to show you that you're not mature enough yet to handle having a sex life.

Answer 3

You know you should have used a condom. You're not the first and wont be the last to get caught up in the heat of the moment. You know you can get pregnant the first time you have sex and that you can get all sorts of diseases and germs. You don't need us preaching to you.

Wait until your period is due. I have a feeling it will turn up if you've only just had sex recently. You may have missed your fertile period. After your period, go to your family planning clinic and ask to be put on the pill and get some condoms. I'd also ask them if you can get checked out for any STI's just in case.

Don't worry too much about it. If you're ready then you're ready, legal age, married or what. It happens, you get caught up in the moment, it feels good and you go with it. It's called human nature.

Answer 4

Wait a few days for your period to start. OR take a test like First Response that can detect up to 5 days before your period (but usually gets the most accurate results a day or two before). You are probably not pregnant, but there is still a chance. Good for you to recognize that you made a mistake, just learn from it in the future! I would personally talk to this boy and tell him your fears about your cousin finding out, maybe he won't tell him and you can gently break the news to your cousin?

Answer 5

Well... I'm not a pyshic so I don't really know if your pregnant or not.
If you didn't have sex on your period, you should be okay. But if you did you definatly need to sneak out and buy a home pregnancy test, and if it comes up positive, you really should confront the guy you slept with because it's his baby then too.
You should also talk to your parents about what happened if you are pregnant because they'll notice the signs sooner or later and I think it would be better to tell them right away then wait to see what they'll do later...

Answer 6

Well first of all I think your cuz should beat his friends butt your a baby and he knew better even tho you didnt secondly tell your mom you need to go to the doctor and be tested for a std or pregnancy just to be safe then sorry I know it will be hard to tell your mother but trust me it is for the best and atleast they can get you started on some kind of birth control not to mean or rude but apperently your dont think before your actions and there are serious consiquiences to your actions...I hope you are not pregnant and I hope your cuz gets his hands on his friend also you do realize he could be in same major trouble for his irresponsible actions...Good Luck hun and please stop having sex until you are mature enough to tell the man no condom no fun

Answer 7

Well, you might be preggers. But you'll have to wait a little longer to find out for sure. From this point on you should make sure that you carry a condom and INSIST that the guy wear one. There won't be any excuses if you are carrying one as well. 15 is way too young to be worrying about if you are preggers or if you've contracted a STD. If you are doing adult activities you should be acting as an adult!! Use a condom!!

Answer 8

first u should 've ask 4 a condom cause u dont know who his messed with.Also u should know if he came in side you 4 sure!That will answer your worries. also u shouldnt mess wit some guy dats over age cuz if anybody were 2 findout he could go to jail. Good Luck,hope you aint pregnant cause you have no idea how it will change your life 4 ever,even if u want to stay with the guy,you won't be happy cause responsibility plays a big part!!wish u the best of luck,stay in [e-mail]

Answer 9

Calm down and buy pregnancy test and go from there. If it comes out negative then keep this accident to your self and thank god for sparing you. Also if the test comes out negative learn from your mistake and grow from your experience. If you are pregnant tell someone and get help. It may be hard to tell this to your family so talk to a school counselor. Whether you become pregnant or not get tested for Aids and other sexual transmitted diseases.

Answer 10

in the beginning there is no age shrink for condoms. 2nd, i could truly have somebody look at me humorous for buying condoms then look at me humorous for having to purchase a being pregnant try with the aid of fact i replace into too chicken to purchase condoms. end being a punk, in case you're too immature to purchase condoms then you truly do no longer must be having intercourse.

Answer 11

this is stautory rape in my state so be careful but while pregnancy may be possible i wou;d tell you to relax and wait for your period if it dosent happen dont freak out and tell the world your pregnant wait til your a week late then take a home prgnancy test if it comes back positive you need to tell a parent everythingand see a doc right away also remember if you are negitive you will need a pap smear and other std tests soon