Ok like 1 of my closest guy friends asked me 2 be his GF & i really dont wanna hurt his feelings or ruin our awesome friend ship! so how is a nice ways i can tell him!!???? thanx for ure help!!
2006-06-20 11:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by austinn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just simply say, "I love that you want to be more than friends, but I dont want to ruin our friendship because it means so much to me, sorry." Its easy as 123. Good Luck
2006-06-20 11:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche but honesty is always the best policy. Tell your friend that you like spending time with them but don't feel that you two would make it as a couple or you're just not attracted in that way. Just be honest but not brutal. He'll at least respect you for your honesty in the long run. Think if the tables were turned how would you like that situation to be handled. Communication is key. Let him know how you feel. ( I've had the same situation and we're still friends going on 5 yrs now. )
2006-06-20 11:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn Offs: 1 3 - depends if it's interesting or not 5 - fat turns me off, and of your choices I prefer curvy, and not too skinny 6 7 - depends if you can pull it off or not, if you look like a guy then it's a turn off, if you look like a girl, and don't go overboard it can be really hot 9 12 - short hair stinks, unless you can pull it off, but either way long hair is better 13 - too skinny or too short is somewhat a turn off, but I don't really look at lips unless they're reaaaaaaaally fat, or reaaaaally skinny, plump lips are better if not too plump 14 - Goth, not sensitive Turn Ons: I think 2 is cute, and a turn on, 4 is a turn on for any guy, curvy is a turn on, 8 is definitely a turn on, 10 turns me on, doesn't for some though, and 11, hair down obviously, I hate girls who spike their hair. Also, it's really important that a girl is sensitive, half the girls at my school are so insensitive, and mean.
2016-05-20 06:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out you will not be his gf ever. You have to be very clear and not beat around the bush. I have seen girls have guys around them forever and the girl keeps trying to be nice and have to suffer the consequences of not saying what they feel. It is better to lose the friend than to keep the "puppy".
2006-06-20 11:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by robert t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you dont want to ruin your good friendship with him cause it really means alot to you. Besides i only see you as a brother, not a bf.
2006-06-20 11:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understend one thing if you r going to run away it wolthen help it, you need to explen him thet you love him as a good good frein relason ship, and nat as a good remantig relason ship and you wana be relly relley arnest with him. and he need to understend you. (so if he will understand you, you will no that he is a good freid. if nat. you will get thet Y he wana be your freind)
2006-06-20 11:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by be c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you expect your "guy" friends to never try something with you? Are you from Earth?
2006-06-20 12:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make it fun out of it and say you goto to be kidding me? just joking around and don't show any serious about it.
2006-06-20 11:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by **B** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer him friends wit benefits - why dont u want him
2006-06-20 11:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say NO.
2006-06-20 11:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by chikidii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋