we're guys... if we didn't think about it a few times every other minute then it's time to call the hopital cause something is very, very wrong.
and yes, when we can teach a gal something new that we are interested in and she seems interested too, then that makes us feel really good. besides interests the guy may have, you could ask situational things, like the most interesting place they've ever been, if they've ever left the country and where did they go, what there home town was like (if they're from somewhere other than your hometown), how did they get interested in their hobbies in the first place, and more than likely anything about themselves.
2006-06-20 11:20:24
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answered by kiss my wookie! 5
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Basically, yes keep talkin about anything that guys r interested the more u know and talk whould b the best thing 2 do. But other wise the main thing on their mind is sex. The only way u chould get out of that subject is 2 tell them straight off the back that u don't want 2 b on that subject and then go from there.
2006-06-20 18:24:00
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answered by tsclark06 2
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BOTH. It depends. If you want to get to know a man, asking questions is best for a woman if you're nervous. Just relax.
And yes, my mind is in the gutter much more than usual right now, but there's a good reasons for that-which I'm not going to post.
2006-06-20 18:13:41
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answered by thedavecorp 6
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First dates are about sharing your ideas and interests to see if you have anything in common. Usually something clicks and there will be a chemistry to keep you interested in pursuing the relationship.
Having wild and great sex is just that and after wards if there is nothing there you will both hope the other turns into a six pack and your three best friends.
2006-06-20 18:16:52
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answered by jodie 6
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Yes, my mind is in the gutter. A woman who knows sports wouldn't do it for me, because I'm not into sports. However, if she liked the same things I do, like cars, the internet, gaming, motorcycles, etc...then that would help.
2006-06-20 18:14:07
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answered by merlin_steele 6
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Sounds like YOUR mind is in the gutter, buddy. For conversations, ask her about her interests, hobbies, favorite places, countries, and most embarrassing moments. Take those tidbits and run with it.
2006-06-20 18:13:44
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answered by tankgirl190 6
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I start Grad school in the fall, I travel and I'm in better shape then most men.
Most guys enjoy me before I F--K their brains out.
Talk about what interests you so on date 5 you don't think Damn! Why am I with this person who collects unicorns?
2006-06-20 18:15:46
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answered by Anonymous
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yes and yes... but basically most guys tend to have their minds "in the gutter" as you say for the majority of the time that they are dating a girl/woman... basically thinking of how many different ways they can "score" without being overly obvious... thoughts?? email me at: ibjam2001@yahoo.com for any additional thoughts you may wish to exchange.. thanks, Jeff
2006-06-20 18:15:16
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answered by ibjam2001 1
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My first wife and I waited 6 months b4 having sex. My 2nd and present wife met through a sexual encounter. So, I've been in both ballparks here. Bottom line is that sex is more important to men than women in general.
2006-06-20 18:15:14
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answered by Monk 2
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One who already knows about sports is way hotter
2006-06-20 18:12:47
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answered by LA_Bruin786 3
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