I'm a 14 year old female turning 15 in november and I recently moved to the state(about 2 weeks now) I've normally taken vacations with my younger sister or my mom here. There's this guy that's about 4 years older than me. I see and talk to him every time I visit but know I've a strong attraction towards him, but he nor no-one else knows. I want to give it a chance but I' scared. He seems like the perfect guy for me but I don't want to tell him and then he doesn't feel the same way about me, but then again, wat if I don't tell him, then I will never know wat could've happened
2006-06-20 11:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by flavachickapple 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a chance but be careful.Older guys can have more in mind.So i say give it a chance but be careful.
2006-06-20 11:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok look, I really don't know but I'll tell you what I think from your information you posted. Adults always say your too young this your too young that but love has NO AGE!!! but then again think it over sometimes the people who seem to be sincere are really full of BS!! lol. I don't mean to sound chessy but follow your heart. This boy just might be the one you'll marry and fall deeply in love with but also could be the one who breaks your heart and leaves a marking that won't allow you to trust or love. Take your time and get to know this boy better than . And honey if you can't tell if he likes you then I'd cut it loose but some are shy. Be straight up with him, men love that. you'll do find just don't let your parents find out: can you say jail time lol email me sometime:gemini_boo91@yahoo.com
2006-06-20 18:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by gemini_boo91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about take it slow? Have a great friendship with him. He might be more interested in girls his own age - you're a bit young for a 19 year old. But if you start a good friendship, by the time you are 18 and he is 22, you might have a chance. And in the meantime, you will know who you are better and he will know himself and you better.
That's how my folks met - same age, same timeframe. They got married five years after they met and they just celebrated their 51 wedding anniversary. My dad would never have even been interested if he hadn't had a friendship with my mom for 3 years before he asked her out.
2006-06-20 18:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by ArtieGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! You're 14, he's got way more experience than you do and will probably be moving on to college or a job or the military... then what? You're stuck there with a broken heart wishing you hadn't ruined the friendship. If he's a decent guy and into you, he'll let ya know and he'll wait until you're older.
2006-06-20 18:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by ez_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I remember being that age. You are right, what if. I say take the chance, because if you shelter yourself all through life, you may never get the chance to experience a LOT of things, including love. But remember you are young, really, and there is plenty of time.
2006-06-20 18:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states, the age difference can get you two into big-time trouble. Ordinarilly, I'd encourage speaking up, as nothing ventured, nothing gained. But in good faith, in this situation, I cannot encourage you to do this. Find a guy to like that's not an illegal love affair for either of you.
2006-06-20 18:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you never know till you find out! So if you like him you can tell him...and if you are good friends then he might come back if he doesnt like you back...But if you dont tell him he might like you and you will never get with him! And 4 years isnt that far apart really..But try it out!!
2006-06-20 18:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong!!!! He is not the guy for you, it's illegal. And no1 is perfect. Ur not marrying the guy anyways, ur barely 15. But I understand the crush and rejection, that part is true.
2006-06-20 18:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong, yes. Maybe not morally, but legally "Can't touch dis" is the policy. Should have caught him LAST year.
2006-06-20 18:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way to old, he could go to jail for being with you right now!
2006-06-20 18:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋