how do you play "hard to get" with a guy
yet still be sexy and stuff without being easy
not that i am
i just want guys to know taht they have to respect me
(past relationship didnt go well, im new to the whole dating thing so i need some goood andvice)
for some reaso, i dont know why a lot of guys go after me, and they give me "the look" up and down
i mean i know thses guys ,they go to my highschool
but still, i dont really know how to handle myself
i mean i want to look hot and be able to pull off the hole "push up bra thing" without looking like a complete easy ****!1
becasue i know im nnot
i mean i have values, and i dont compromise with my beleifs, im not gonna let a guy talk ethat away from me
i just dont know how to show that on a "first impression"
as i said before.
im new to this
2006-06-20 11:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by hipsdontlie16 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
please dont....guys dont like it
2006-06-20 11:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by beef wellington7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about respect, if you respect yourself then boys will respect you too.like other people are saying just be ur self let the guys know straight up that you are not easy,and guys will think that's sexy that you are keeping it real, cuz boys not want someone that's going to get them all worked and end up telling them NO, teasing is not really good to do cuz u can make someone mad.so just be careful if your thinking about being a tease because some boys can really be a-s-s-es. just just keep it real as long as you respect your self the boys will think your hot.
2006-06-20 11:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do that, man, forget it. If they find out you're playing hard, then get ready to learn, guys hate women who play hard to get. They see it as childish, immature, dishonest and really bad move.
Some women think men will respect them if the woman plays hard to get. As someone said, "the harder you play hard to get, the harder he will work to keep you with him." Wrong. It works opposit. He'll think that's part of your character and men, ain't got time to work hard to please anyone, and so goes for women too.
I don't know why people do this hard to get game. They['re messing with someone's head if you do that. Just be honest because if you do that, guess what, he might just get the message that you're not interested and when you decide to ask, it maybe, he has already asked someone else.
I've seen this happen many a times and the women get gutted as well as guys who play hard to get. Not worth it. Best advise?
BE YOURSELF. Now, that is more beautiful than playing hard to get. Honesty, is hot in itself. Confidence is assertiveness men like. A woman who is confident is not a woman to play games. She's hot because SHE KNOWS WHO SHE IS.
So know who you are, stay real and be yourself. That's what you want them to see, isn't it?
2006-06-20 12:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Adam Taha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good guys aren't going to play hard to get, they'll just move on. I don't no anyone who is into games, try being yourself if you can.
It sounds like you just want to learn how to be a DIK tease. Why would you want that kind of rep?
2006-06-20 11:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by johnnyinsnj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The harder he has to work to get you, the harder he will work to keep you (if he's in it for more than sex). Make him respect you and admire you, and not just for your body. Trust me: if you're looking for a GOOD guy, then don't have sex just to make him happy. Sex makes ANY guy happy. If he likes who you ARE, he'll stick around to learn more about you, to be with you, and that's a fulfilling relationship. Once you do have sex...it's like icing on the cake. The guys who take off after awhile of not having sex are only in it for sex, and aren't really worth your time unless you're looking for just sex, also.
2006-06-20 11:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by R. McFee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait.....he will come along and when that Mr. right does show up you will know. He will respect you, he will wait for you and he will treat you like a lady.
2006-06-20 11:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by optimist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get is something that guys do. guys will have sex with a log. you don't need to play hard to get with them.
2006-06-20 11:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself....If you are comfortable with your sexuality....he will too!!! Huggs and Kisses,,,,,Lonnie
2006-06-20 11:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better let them do the playing.
That is what they are for.
2006-06-20 11:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to be careful not to become a tease......
2006-06-20 11:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF.
2006-06-20 11:04:03 · answer #11 · answered by queen rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋