ok i have this friend hes tryin to hurt himself he doesnt know how much he means to me i love him in a brother kinda way and i dont know what to tell him i really care about him but also hes tryin to ask me out i dont love him like that i love mi bf but idk what to do i dont wanna lose mi friend this way HELP ME PLEASE
2006-06-20 11:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I'm sorry to hear that your Friend hurts himself. Somebody with that kind of mentality is very hard to break them from that routine...........if this guy is doing this for you then only you can put a stop to it. Tell him explain to him and show him how much you love him AS A FRIEND!. If he insists that he loves you more than friends and that he will hurt himself b/cus of you then sad to say you don't have a choice of leaving him or staying with him. Tell him that if he can't realize that you already have a boyfriend and that you love him as a friend and you don't want to be responsible for hurting someone else. But please tell him calmly and respectfully, and don't try to sound like you are attacking him because people with those kinds of problems are extremely sensitive to harm full words.
Of course I am not telling you to actually leave him because that is going to make it harder on him to deal with. Use some reverse psychology..............the key to this is choosing the right wording......i really hope this helps you and if it doesn't I'm very sorry........
wish you the best!!!!
~browneyes~
2006-06-20 11:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop being selfish. Because that's what he is doing, he's making everyone worry, he's only thinking of himself, and he's not being a good friend to you. You need to be his WAKE UP CALL. Tell him to stop trying to hurt himself. Even if you went out with him, do you think that would stop his behavior? It's going to be a hard thing to talk about, but he needs to hear that he is worth something and he needs to change his life around.
2006-06-20 11:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of those answers are good...be honest...maybe give him one chance and tell your b/f that u like him not the other the guy and that this is just 2 stop him from hurting himself...r get some of his other friends 2 talk 2 him good luck!
2006-06-20 11:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care for him and that you want to be there for him, and have a conversation about whats going on with him. Tell him that you love your boyfriend, but that you love him in a brotherly way. Alls you can do is show how much you care.
2006-06-20 11:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 05:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes really trying to hurt himself,He needs help NOW!If you love him call or tell someone who can help you get him help.If something bad does happen,you'll be relieved that you did try to help him. Peace.
2006-06-20 11:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by bamahotT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz say that ur frendship wuz gud without dating cuz i think if u guyz were still frendz u wuld tlk more nd better than being in a relationship take mi advice nd plz pik me fo a best answer
2006-06-20 11:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i really don't know. i mean you should tell him you love him like a brother and you can't go out w/ him because of your b/f. tell him you don't want him to hurt himself.
2006-06-20 11:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened 2 me 2....tell him how u feel tell him tht he really means something 2 u and not 2 hurt himself but just tht u dont like him like tht. hope tht helps
2006-06-20 11:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by ailatan92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an adult and get him some serious help. he may need to see a doctor for a medical disorder
2006-06-20 11:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋