for example if i meet you for the first time i got ur name you got mine ..... nxt is i want to know about you... so wut question should entertain you and wut questions puts ur world into boredom... you know question that you really like to answer and question that are sooooo nonsense to you... and if i ask you to go out for coffee wut will you be thinking??? and how do you say no if you dont want to give ur number or dont wanna come for cofee... pls gimme a hint.. thank you... ( whoever answer these question is beautiful)
2006-06-20 10:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by evertroland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask women questions that have to do with what they're wearing, what they were doing when you met them (i.e. ask about their dog if you met them while they were in the park walking their dog), their kids, their family... Mostly anything you want to know. More importantly, unless she brings it out first, don't ask about her work beyond the general stuff. Never ask about her exes, that's off limits in the beginning.
If I don't want to give out my number or go out with someone, I just say so. I hate people who play games and lead someone on.
2006-06-20 10:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if I don't want to give you my phone number I would tell you I already have a boyfriend. If I don't want to go out with you I would say I am really busy but not give you a time that I can. Questions for the ladies keep it simple, What do they do for a living? Any kids? How Old? those types of questions just remember do not drill her with questions give her a chance to answer and even ask some.
Good Luck
2006-06-20 10:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow of things. Ask her what she does for fun or what her hobbies are. Never ask about the ex thats just bad. If u asked me to go out for coffe id be down..i love the stuff. Plus its a calm low key first date where you two can talk and find out more about eachother. No movies you cant talk. You seem like you are a nice man and have a great concern to make sure people are comfortable and happy. Most of all be yourself we hate iit when u act otherwise. Good luck to you and hope all goes well.
2006-06-20 10:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by silki_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what kind of music she really digs. And always listen to her and pay attention to her when she's talking especially (big turn on). Nonsense questions are "What's up" or "What's going on"...these don't realy specify too much into their unique, feminineness. Women love specifics. Be specific in any question you ask, or any answer that you give to her questions. If I don't want to come for coffee I usually just say I have other plans. Which I think most people do...but usually...when I say it. Its the truth! Other than that...I'll usually come for coffee. (unless the guy is a complete inconsiderate ***)..in that case...I'd straight up just tell him to **** off. lol! And for the last question...I think most females think about the males they are out on the date with. They are trying to figure you out on if you are a nice guy...a different guy (doesn't lie, wont even think about cheating, does or says really cute or unique things) Females are very unique creatures...they often DWELL on things at hand...therefore, they are most definitely thinking of you on your date...figuring out if you are good, or not good for them in a relationship. Good luck!
2006-06-20 11:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Audra K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen there isnt a set of questions you ask a woman or a date etc...its not a questionaire. all you got to do is be your self. go with the flow..if she asks you questions answer then back. and conversations start this way. but if you are insistant on questions heres a few. so where do you live. do you live with parents. what kind of work . or do you study. what do you do in your spare time. you get the drift...and as for not wanting to give your mobile. then just ask her for hers and jot it down and say ill tex or call you. and this may be the way with her to. and if she refuses a coffee then say ok thats fine maybe if i call you we can arrange for another time. etc...well i hope its been a help.
2006-06-20 10:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out for coffee, but dinner would be nice. You could start by asking her what her favorite restaurant is....I wouldn't want a guy asking about my past at first, maybe ask about her present or plans for the future. Try to find out what the both of you have in common. Movies, music, etc. Ask her to recommend a good movie, scary or funny..whatever you like. Her favorite places. What she likes to do for fun. Tell her what you like. Just get to know her! It'll show respect for her.
2006-06-20 10:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had your number and you had mine, then that means we have already met and i would definetly go out with you to have coffee if you asked or i would not have given you the number in the first place. as for you asking for my number, if i didnt want you to have it, i would say i am sorry but i am not interested or im sorry i already have a boyfriend. on a first meeting or date, you should probably stick to basic questions , you know like things that you are interested in, places you like to go, what you like to do, things of this nature.make sure you are well groomed and dont stink ( ha ha ) that means clean clothes and not day old! good luck to you.s.meeker
2006-06-20 11:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by sheila m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...
Well, I really wouldn't be into questions all about me. I'd want to hear about you too. Talking just about me woud put me into total boredom. But, hearing you blab on would put me in total boredom, too.
If you asked me out to coffee, it owuld depend on your personality. If I liked you, I'd be happy, if I didn't think we'd get along, I'd probobly go, and see if there is a side of you I don' tknow and decide if I want to see your further after coffee.
2006-06-20 10:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you do 4 a living
2006-06-20 10:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like to talk about themselves. well, a lot of women do anyway. if you ask for their number and they kind of hesitate, i would say that they are not ready to give it to you. as far a conversation goes, just ask them what they do for a living, what they like to do for fun, ask if they go to clubs, movies, ect... and go from there. if they are into you and you ask to go for coffee, they will be thinking, wow, he wants a second date. just be yourself and you should do fine. dont put on a show cause most women can tell when you are.
2006-06-20 10:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋