I've been dealing with this guy off and on for almost 4 yrs. now, he cheated after the first yr and got one of my enemies pregnant. I forgave him, then he did the same thing again this yr except the girl is sort of a friend. Now he's saying that he really loves me and he didn't mean to do what he did. I don't want to believe him because I love him and I would do anything for him, yet I don't want to be with him and he does it again once more. leave him or believ him????
2006-06-20 10:32:26 · 25 answers · asked by just_nettie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on girl, open ur pretty eyes and take those rose tinted glasses off, this guy has been taking u for a ride for the last four years. U r worth soooo much more than that! U gave this guy a chance and he blew it, i mean dudette, he's cheated on u twice!!
He's not worth another heartache.. plus there are so many other caring and sexy guys out there that can and will treat you with the respect u deserve.
If this was happening to a best friend of urs, what would u tell her? It's funny how we don't take our own advice when similar situations arises.
Good luck girl wiv whatever choice u make!
2006-06-20 10:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him he went to far its one thing to cheat but to get a girl pregnant and an enemy of yours at that .. umm thats like a ***** smack to the face ..sweety your better then that .. dont be his door mat thats no fun ... I been there done it and still doing it and its not healthy .. if you dont have kids together I would leave his sorry ***!!! get out while you can b4 you end up pregnant .. I understand you love him .. cuz love is a CRAZY thing ..but honestly hun its better to hurt for a lil while now then to continue hurting down the line when u find out hes done it again or gets someone else pregnant .. he is making you look really stupid .. I beleive when ur in love u needa put ur pride aside sometimes but its gotta be a two sided love .. if its not its never gonna work anyway.. good luck to you .. you gotta do what u gotta do ..open your eyes though ..every women deserves better then that !!!
2006-06-20 17:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the two times that you KNOW about, what about all the other times that weren't with your friends or ex-friends that you don't know about? Can you really ever trust this guy again? If you don't have trust in a relationship you don't have a thing! You're obviously someone who has a lot of compassion and a lot of love to give, go find someone to give it to who deserves it.
2006-06-20 17:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by ez_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you need to be hit over the head with a club to see some sense. What will it take, for you to wise up and leave him. It's seems he has no problem leaving you, all the time.
Get over him quickly, a leopard never changes its spots. He's done it twice and will do it again.
2006-06-20 17:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did it not once, but twice, as soon as another fresh piece of meat presents itself hes gonna ride it again. Kick him to the curb, he doesn't care for you, you are nothing more than a good piece of ***, thats easily accessible. Find someone who will treat you the right way.
2006-06-20 17:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you or he wouldn't have done anything like that in the first place! Dump him. There are plenty of good guys out there.
2006-06-20 17:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does love you but that doesn't mean he is going to stop cheating I think you should leave him. (once a cheater always a cheater),(once is a mistake and twice is on pourpose) think about it .
2006-06-20 17:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, i'm sorry but maybe it's time to move on. i had that problem, and after years, i finally moved on and i felt great. it took a long time to move on, but little by little it worked. i know it'll be hard, but it's all worth it in the end. you'll be much happier. good luck, god bless, and have a nice day! : )
2006-06-20 17:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perpetuating a cyclical cycle that is damaging yourself. Obviously he is disrespecting you. There should not be a second offense if he loves you. You deserve better.
2006-06-20 17:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with JOHNB693, your not seeing the rea;ity of the situation and your putting your feelings before common sense. Wake up sister. This is no longer his fault, it's yours.
2006-06-20 17:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋