He is 37 and I am 20. I know that is a rather large gap but I like to think I am mature for my age. I am also a single mother. I just don't know to push the idea or just let this amazing guy slip through my fingers.
2006-06-20 10:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by sweetandprettyinnc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's not who you think he is
2006-06-20 10:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by rpcmrsz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference would not matter, Gypsy Eyes, if there was love shared between you. Sure, some conversations can be awkward because of the generation gap, but love knows no boundaries, and overcomes all obstacles. However, it would seem that your guy only wants friendship, or is not interested in being a father.
If you're waiting for him to take the relationship to the next step, and he isn't, then step up yourself. Ask him if he loves you and if he wants to become exclusive. If he's elusive, ask again. Your heart needs an answer, and often you have to shake the answer out of a guy.
2006-06-20 10:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a mother doesn't make you mature and a man at that age will settle down, but that does not mean he'll do that with you.
I don't know the current status of this man or what kind of a relationship you have with him, but you have to consider what your needs and wants are and make a distinction. And he'll have to tell you that as well.
It's not a complicated situation, but how does he know as you get older, you'd want something different? That's risky considering his age and like I said before, if he wants to settle, it's for life. Think you can do that?
You have a lot more going because of your age and more opportunities to explore different things. He's done that and at times that will cause the both of you to go down different roads.
Choose wisely.
2006-06-20 10:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking to a guy and dating a guy are two different things -- if you've been dating him since Nov. & he won't say you're exclusing then you're probably not! He doesn't want to committ to just you and is probably at least 'talking' to other women. You're young, you're fun -- if you want an exclusive relationship, go get ya a guy who's willing to committ!
2006-06-20 10:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by ez_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it! He has no intention of marrying you.
Dump him, there are plenty of good guys out there looking for wonderful women.
2006-06-20 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is on the net it will take longer, if it is in person then he is either stupid or he is using you, either way try to convince him that you really want to be his one and only.! if he can not then you never had him hooked, move on!
2006-06-20 10:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you need to do. How amazing is he if he doesn't realize how amazing you are?
2006-06-20 10:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ? Because he's just not that into you.
2006-06-20 10:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋