I know i should listen o my heart and not to my friends...
Buh i like this girl right and she is in the african-canadian community and i am afraid my friends will laugh at me and half of me is saying to swallow my pride...
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2006-06-20 10:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by im_your_boss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is i am flip and she is well technically she is jamaican-canadian, i really need people who experienced this to answer my question.
2006-06-20 10:27:39 · update #1
If they are really your friends they will respect your actions, feelings and thoughts, whatever it is you choose.
2006-06-20 10:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride for your friends? B*llsh*t. If your friends are YOUR FRIENDS, they'll support you even if you went out with a Vulcan.
Do you like her?
Are you interested in her?
Go to her!
This is your life and that means your the one who counts, not this pride or vanity people get sucked into!
Go for it dude and be happy!
2006-06-20 10:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart if you are serious about dating this girl. There's no use swallowing your pride if you don't like her that much.
I like this girl and she's older. Whenever I talk about her, my friends don't listen to me or they don't take me seriously, but that's how I feel and I do say, "go for it! it's your loss not theirs"
Good luck
2006-06-20 10:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! What have you got to lose? If you lose your friends then they weren't your friends to begin with if they don't support your decision. Hopefully your friends will come around and like her.
2006-06-20 10:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swallow ur pride and go for the girl.
2006-06-20 10:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look player, be your own boss...if they are your friends, it will not matter who you are with, as long as you are happy....step out of your ethnic bubble, go for something different, and see what happens...no one said you ahd to marry her. ITs your relationship, your happiness, not them...suck it up boy...good luck
2006-06-20 10:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by perfectguyw/othelooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her don't worry about what your friends think, if they have a problem with it then you don't have very good friends hun.
hope you make the right choice
2006-06-20 10:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my (now) husband, everyone was telling me to forget him, but my heart was telling me to go for it. We have been happily married for over 18 years now!! Go for it.
2006-06-20 10:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your real friends they will like her just as they like you.If they dont maybe it's time to get some new friends.If she feels the same go for it get your's playa.Holla at your boy
2006-06-20 10:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, go for it! You are the one who will have the relationship, not your friends...
Good luck
2006-06-20 10:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by LoveIsUnpredictable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋