how do you know when the right guy is there. how could you find out if he is really trust worthy and never going to leave you for someone else. can someone please help me find the signs for this kind of guy.
2006-06-20 10:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by sesso*E 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you feel open enough to tell him everything, and he can do the same, you know. most best friends are like that, they don't relize what is their
2006-06-24 13:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by her half dead lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you should not be worrying about the right guy, but let me help you prepare to find the right one when you are older.
I don’t believe in “dating” around as a way to find the right one. It is possible to find him and know before you begin dating him, and him only.
First thing is to sit down and make a list of required characteristics that you want for a future husband. The first thing on your list should be that he must love the Lord, and be fully committed to his faith. (It should be the same as your faith.) Then make another list of other qualities that you would like, but are not absolutely necessary, i.e. looks, height, etc.. Also talk to your mother and let her be involved in making your list. You can also ask your pastor, friends sisters and brother. Do not compromise with your list; you want the best man for you. When you are older, pray that God will provide you with a good man (He knows what you want and need.)
You can revise your list, but don’t begin looking until you are at least 20. When a boy develops an interest in you, then it is OK to be a friend. Here is where the hard work comes in, watch him carefully and listen to him closely, and see if he meets ALL of your requirements for your husband. If he doesn’t meet them, then keep him as a casual friend. Also pay very close attention to how a boy treats his mother and sisters because this is how he will treat you, but it will get worse. You don’t want a man who will disrespect or abuse you in any way.
The one who meets ALL of your requirements and some of your desires is the one.
If any boy tries to pressure you to have sex, run away from him because he loves himself more than he will ever love you.
Do not engage in sex before you get married; you will be much happier if you keep your virginity until you get married. With each sex partner, you give away a piece of your heart, so that when you finally get married, you are unable to love him with your whole heart because it has been broken into pieces.
When God brings the right man for you, you will recognize him because he will be exactly what you want. If you will follow these suggestions and remain a virgin, you will have a happy marriage, especially if both of you are dedicated to God.
I know that is seems difficult, but you will be much happier. My 16 year old daughter has made her list, and I have seen it. I used the same principles with my wife; I watched her very carefully (no, I didn’t stalk her). I was watching and listening to her long before I even hinted that I liked her. I saw that she was what I wanted. I never imagined that marriage could be so wonderful. (Today is our anniversary, and we are happier than when we were first married.)
2006-06-22 20:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Marty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is date, and take time to find out all about him, and his thoughts. Often that can take a long time.
But when you do find him, you will know for sure, and there will be no doubt in your mind.
Sometimes, you have to kiss many a frog, before you find your true prince.
2006-06-20 17:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just kind of have to guess.
wanna be my gf??
email only at anshukistheman@hotmail.com
2006-06-20 17:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by hockey.playaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*you will feel it*
2006-06-25 14:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋